ninjashadow,
You said
I guess the way that I look at it would be like time travel (no, I'm not saying that God time travels. I have no doubt that He can if he chooses). I go into the future, let's say 62 yrs to right after Skip's death, and find out all there is to know about him, then travel back to my time, I haven't influenced Skip's choices in any way, I merely know what he to do. He still made all the choices, still did everything that I found out he did after he died, but even if I am back in my time, before his birth, I did not cause him to make any particular choice. He chose what he chose.
I guess what this argument boils down to is: is there a future already or are we making it up as we go along?
Going forward in time
In your example, the information that you gained was only instructive or had any unusual implication until you went back into time. Put it this way, lets say that you learned about skip's death by your time travel into the future thing, but then you never went backwards into time, you stayed at least that far ahead in time. That so called foreknowledge would then be the same sort of knowledge as if you never traveled in time and simply lived out life and learned what you would end up learning about skips death and end of his life. So when you consider it that way, you might begin to see that the foreknowledge really only becomes significant when you go back sometime into the past with your future knowledge, it is only then that it might make any real difference as opposed to regular present knowledge.
Going backwards in time
And when you consider doing that, that is the exact same as being in the present and looking back into any event that has ever happened that you are familiar with in the past! So again, when you consider each part of that time travel concept, it does not bring new light into how exhaustive knowledge and free will work together or not.
Clarification
I believe the aspect that is not focused on from your example is held in the concepts "exhaustive" and "absolute certainty". When everything that will ever happen is according to one unalterable destiny, then there is literally no options to choose from, and there never was any options at all, there never could be if everything is always absolutely certain! You have to have some uncertainty and some optional outcomes to choose between for free will to become a factual reality. Consider the alternatives.
No uncertainty
Lets say we have no idea if the future is exhaustively foreknown or not, but the world is absolutely without
uncertainty. If that is the case, then all outcomes of all events have no choice but to happen according to that one unalterable destiny.
Here's an illustration of such a world. The waitress comes up to you and asks you what you want, but she also absolutely knows what you will get. Because that knowledge is unalterable, you have no choice but to respond as she knows you will. So no matter how many choices you think are available for you to optionally choose between, you have absolutely no choice to deviate from the unalterable destiny. You have to have choices and alternate outcomes in order to have free will.
No options
Lets say we have no idea if the future is exhaustively foreknown or not, but the world is absolutely without
choices or optional outcomes. If that is the case, then all outcomes of all events have no choice but to happen according to that one unalterable destiny.
Here's an illustration of such a world. The waitress comes up to you and asks what you would like to order. She says that you can either have the chef's special, cheeseburger and fries, or they have a new plate that comes with a cheeseburger and an order of fries, or there's the tried and true cheese burger and fries. Oh ya, she keeps forgetting the last choice, and for the young at heart, it's a delightful cheeseburger and fries.
One might try to say that you always have the choice to not choose, but not in this illustration. Remember, in a world without optional outcomes, you have no choice but to do according to one single unalterable destiny. No choices, no optional outcomes, no possible way to have free will.
Time travel
In Darwin's day, evolution was the latest thing, and even Christians got sucked into it's lure and buzz. But in more recent times, Darwinistic evolution has run into lean times. I find it to be a bankrupt theory other than the fact that some limited variations that are fully found without a kind's gene pool respond to selection factors. But that is hardly Darwin's evolution. I suggest it's the same with the whole Einsteinian time is relative in terms of it's a physical entity of some sort, it can be manipulated, time travel is possible, etc. I find that entire line of reasoning to be bankrupt. It is not possible to travel through time, that is more like a child's fairy tale than it is spiritual truth.
I agree with your final comment. Are we forging our own futures as we go along, or does the future already exist in a way that God completely foreknows it. I refer you to my previous post for my thoughts on that issue.
Peace