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JudgeRightly

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I could just as easily suggest not defending an abusive husband's actions and expecting the wife keep upholding a contract he broke.
Do you think that all men or women who cheat on their spouses have abusive spouses?

If so, how does that in any way vindicate the actions of the spouse who commits adultery?
 

glorydaz

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Then she should divorce him. Not commit adultery...



So your argument is that "because husband broke marriage covenant, therefore it's ok to commit adultery"?

First off....no one has said it's okay to commit adultery. We're just giving you some reasons why it may occur.

First and foremost, is choosing wrongly to marry any particular person.

If people would go back to square one, then the rest of this becomes mute.
 

Arthur Brain

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And when that "love" contract is broken by an abusive husband?????
That contract is dependent on both to uphold, not just one of them.
Why should the wife be expected to be the only one to uphold that contract?

She shouldn't be. No person should be beholden to a contract where abuse is part of it because that isn't the part of any marriage agreement. "For better or worse" doesn't include being abused in any form.
 

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Do you think that all men or women who cheat on their spouses have abusive spouses?
Don't be silly.
The contract is broken when the husband is abusive.
Just how many times does he have to be abusive before the contract is considered to be broken to you?
 

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Don't be silly.
The contract is broken when the husband is abusive.
Just how many times does he have to be abusive before the contract is considered to be broken to you?

Not what I asked. Tam, this is the second time you have, either intentionally or not, misread my question. Please pay attention to what I DID ask, not what I did not.

Do you think that all men or women who cheat on their spouses have abusive spouses?

If so, how does that in any way vindicate the actions of the spouse who commits adultery?
 

ok doser

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i'll just bounce this one forward:

[MENTION=3698]Tambora[/MENTION] and [MENTION=13955]glorydaz[/MENTION]

artie posted:
Well, firstly, he doesn't have an "excuse" for being abusive and yes, it does (give an abused wife an excuse to commit adultery) if she's married to such a guy. Who could blame her?

do you agree that an abused wife who commits adultery is blameless?
 

glorydaz

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i'll just bounce this one forward:

[MENTION=3698]Tambora[/MENTION] and [MENTION=13955]glorydaz[/MENTION]

artie posted:

do you agree that an abused wife who commits adultery is blameless?

Blameless like the stripper or blameless like the abortion doctor.

Blameless of a particular crime or any crime whatsoever.

It's a complicated subject.....who deserves what. :)
 
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