Hasan_ibn_Sabah
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Don't confuse forgiveness with legal clemency, we forgive sinners, but crimes must be payed for. Its sinful to let a criminal continue in their acts against the social order.
beanieboy said:So, Dave - i mentioned that I got mugged. It was pretty violent.
I forgive, and the mugger does what?
I suppose that they have to come to some conclusion of being sorry, of understanding what I did, but how does that happen when it is a stranger crime? (I don't think he was ever caught, but it happened to someone else an hour earlier.)
So, now what?
or better - were I to wrong someone, what should I do, other than ask forgiveness?
How does the Eye for an Eye theory of yours work out?
Let's say that I stole money from a roommate.
Now what?
beanieboy said:Thanks, Dave. Both posts are very valued.
And of the first one, I often realize that although it happened 2 years ago, and the scar healed surprisingly well, it stays with you, and that forgiveness means you have to work your weigh through a really long tunnel to get through to the other side.
Humble thanks.
Rimi said:Rebuking is for letting that person know that they hurt you.
IF they respond with sorrow and repentence, then you can forgive.
aikido7 said:Like Jesus demonstrated, forgiveness is reciprocal. We are forgiven to the extent we forgive others....
Frank Ernest said:You forgot something.
Luke 17:3-4 [jesus]"Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him."[/jesus]
Frank Ernest said:You forgot something.
Luke 17:3-4 [jesus]"Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him."[/jesus]
Frank Ernest said:You forgot something.
Luke 17:3-4 [jesus]"Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him."[/jesus]
Dave Miller said:Hi Frank,
Lets look at this closely. The first thing to notice is that this applies to brothers,
fellow disciples, fellow Christians.
In this regard, we are absolutely called to exhort, rebuke, encourage our Christian
brothers and sisters to not sin, and remain strong in the faith. All scripture agrees
with this.
Now the second thing to ask is, who is Jesus directing this to? Well, it says in Luke 17-1
that He's addressing the disciples as a group. Based on this, one may ask the
question, is Jesus telling them how to act as individuals in relationship with one
another, or as a group, a Church? From the group perspective, this would seem to
be an instruction answering the question, if a member of the Church sins, how should it
be handled by the group?
Now think about the Sermon on the Mount. It is addressed to everyone, not just the
disciples, not just the church, and it describes a code / conduct for personal behavior.
In that code, Jesus speaks of forgiving enemies, turning the other cheek, all
unconditionally.
The challenge continues to be to find an understanding of scripture that makes sense
for all the scripture we are given. For Christ to say "forgive unconditionally" in
Matthew, but say "forgive conditionally" in Luke doesn't make sense. At this juncture,
many people throw up their hands, choose one scripture over another, or give up on
scripture altogether. But for the faithful, the diligent, continuing to struggle with
the scripture "as is," digging deeper, yields deeper truths.
If in Matthew Jesus is saying "as individuals, forgive unconditionally," but in Luke
Jesus is saying "as a Church, care for one another, nurture one another, protect one
another, rebuke out of love and then with repentence forgive, but don't tolerate sin within
the group," this seems more consistant, with Matthew, Luke, and with Paul's writings.
Dave
Is it just me but isnt the repenting turning from his life as a slave and coming home?The most profound message of divine forgiveness is embedded in Jesus' own parabolic story we have come to know as "The Prodigal Son." The son does not "repent" but instead "comes to himself."
You are able to allow meaning of the specific word "repent" to go beyond its literal boundaries. That is commendable and necessary.justchristian said:Is it just me but isnt the repenting turning from his life as a slave and coming home?
"When he came to his senses, he said, 'How many of my father's hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men.' 20So he got up and went to his father. "
aikido7 said:You are able to allow meaning of the specific word "repent" to go beyond its literal boundaries. That is commendable and necessary.
As to the structure of the parable itself, Luke uses the word "repent" quite often in his gospel; a concordance might even show Luke uses the word most often. My observation is that substituting "coming to himself" is a curious substitute in the context of his gospel.
"Repent" actually comes from the Greek metanoia which describes a complete transformation of being--a "turning away" from the past. It is a much more revolutionary concept than merely "having regrets and saying you are sorry."
The church's spin on repentance seems to emphasize forced admission before a sound thrashing. I believe it is much more than that. We have become too accustomed to our take on Jesus rather than Jesus himself.
..new wine in new wineskins!Hasan_ibn_Sabah said:Thats why the forgiveness of other is preresequite to repentance and accepting the forgiveness of God, one must wipe the slate clean and turn away from your present course of action before embarking on a new life.
Chileice said:You forgot to read the thread. That verse has been proof-texted at least a dozen times by people wanting to avoid their Christ-given responsibility to forgive.