ClimateSanity
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Trad looked "straight at the woman" with a "giant grin on his face" and called her the n-word - that's not careless, that's INTENT.
The woman probably has heard it her whole life - and it most probably hurt her every. single. time. You think n-words only hurt when you're a child? They're even more cruel said to a child, but the n-word has no age limit on hurt. Or hate. Do you think because "she's used to it" that it somehow mitigates Trad's behavior? If so, that's a part of the harm caused by overt racism and bigotry.
Frankly, the way you keep giving him the benefit of the doubt is mind-boggling, particularly when he undercuts you repeatedly by saying that yes, that is what he meant, what he thinks, what he is.
How could it be with intent when he was shocked at the realization that she read his lips?