You're personally attacking him. That's the problem. Leave off it.
Ahhhh...when issues get non-abstract and personal the hard-line conservative changes their tune!
You're personally attacking him. That's the problem. Leave off it.
Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid. - Proverbs 12:1 http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs12:1&version=NKJV
You ignored my comments about the kids? You were using them as "victims" of adultery before. :think:
What will it do to the kids to have their mother put to death for committing adultery?
They might even end up blaming the dad for not treating their mother with more respect and love.
Kids see things, and they love their mother. That I can guarantee.
Plenty of times. But I accept correction. I don't reject it.How many times have you been corrected?
You're personally attacking him. That's the problem. Leave off it.
Plenty of times. But I accept correction. I don't reject it.
Plenty of times. But I accept correction. I don't reject it.
Blameless????
Blameless????
You mean "blameless" as when a man rapes a woman that acts promiscuous?
You like to claim that the bad action of a man (rape) was a consequence of the woman's bad action (promiscuity) and she shouldn't be all that surprised that she was raped.
So why not apply the same logic of consequences of the man's bad action being the result of the wife's bad actions and him not be all that surprised that she fled to arms of another?
Once the contract is broken the contract is no longer valid --- ie. she no longer has a "husband".So, breaking a contract makes it ok for someone else to commit adultery?
That's effectively what you're saying.
I still don't see why the solution is adultery. Why not just get a divorce instead?
[MENTION=3698]Tambora[/MENTION] and [MENTION=13955]glorydaz[/MENTION]
artie posted:
Well, firstly, he doesn't have an "excuse" for being abusive and yes, it does (give an abused wife an excuse to commit adultery) if she's married to such a guy. Who could blame her?
do you agree that an abused wife who commits adultery is blameless?
Blameless????
The (marriage) contract is broken when the husband is abusive.
The (marriage) contract is broken when the husband is abusive.
If a marriage is broken up just because a wrong was committed, then God would not have been able to divorce Israel AFTER she had been unfaithful to Him...a bold claim
can you support it scripturally?
No person should be beholden to a contract where abuse is part of it because that isn't the part of any marriage agreement. "For better or worse" doesn't include being abused in any form.
There are people that think that a wife must put up with everything a husband does to her simply because they have a marriage contract.
Jesus Christ said:Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
"For better or worse" doesn't include being abused in any form.