Who did I judge? I don't know if or who may have done any of these things.
See, that kind of reaction makes me think something I wrote may have applied to you, and now you're attacking me as a way of defending/excusing yourself. If so, I think you should re-consider that strategy. It's a bad strategy in the long run.
Those who know me know I am anything but a "sad sack" given to melancholy and mournful temperament. I'm much more akin to a jolly Ralph Kramden type, but with a bit more education.
Well, except that I didn't judge anyone.