You know what, Trad? I've been subjected to bigotry because of my religion, by supposed 'Christians.' I've been the subject of vicious, in-my-face bigotry by someone who thought I was in an inter-racial relationship, because I was at the store with my sons and their friends who were black and the white supremacist assumed they were all my kids. That was an eye-opening experience for me and for my children. Honestly, I don't know what it was like for their friends, I tried to leave the door open for them to talk about it, but they didn't.
I'm not a fan of black-white interracial dating/marriage. Not gonna lie: whenever I see an attractive white woman with a black man, it just gets on my nerves. You know the law of supply and demand, right?
Your views tell me that racism is indeed alive and well in this country in a way I thought long on its way out. How naive of me. But I have to thank you, because if my anger at what you have to say is only a millionth of the anger felt by those who because of the color or their skin have been oppressed by your kind of bigotry all their lives and felt its multi-generational pressure handed down to them by generations past, it will have been a good experience for me.
"Racism makes sense"? If that's true, you haven't really changed your views about Hitler at all - you're fooling only yourself.
AnnaBenedetti, I'm honestly not sure what it is that angers you so much. I'm not part of a racist organization. I don't go out of my way to make the lives of minorities more difficult.
When I lived with those hispanic, did I probably make their lives more difficult? Probably. I got most of those roommates kicked out.
But not because they were hispanic. Because they didn't clean up after themselves. Because they drank and played loud music late at night. Because they played beer pong until 3 AM or later and it kept me awake at night. Because they apparently liked to shout for no apparent reason. Because they were violent. Because one of them kept trying to sneak into my bed. Because they wouldn't stop messing with my belongings.
I've had black roommates before. Wasn't a huge fan of either one. But not because they were black. Because one insisted on having the overhead light on after I'd gone to bed, and because the other talked on his phone and did all other sorts of distracting nonsense after I'd gone to bed.
I don't vote for racist politicians on the grounds that they're racist, and quite frankly, immigration generally isn't even on my political radar. It simply isn't an issue that I care about that much or take into consideration when evaluating a politician.
Fact is, I didn't even vote in the last presidential campaign.
What is it that angers you so much? Chances are, I'll never meet your minority relatives. And even if I did, they would have no clue that I've more than likely formed a judgment about them before they've spoken to me. I would be just as polite to than as to anyone.
For example, once this black guy in a philosophy course I was auditing insisted on talking to me. Did I call him the n-word? Nope. Did I tell him to go bugger off? Nope. Was he clearly a middle class black guy who more than likely came from the suburbs? Probably. Was there any chance of the two of us hanging out or becoming friends? Unlikely.
For a number of reasons, his skin color being only one part of my total unwillingness seriously to give him the time of day.
Was I exceedingly impolite? No. I just lectured him on how terrible the job market is, and why he's going to be screwed when he graduates, since he'll have majored in philosophy at a small school that nobody knows or cares about. :chuckle:
But you know what? If you saw me and didn't know me, chances are, you'd have formed a judgment about me before I've spoken to you. We do this all the time based on any number of factors.
If a random male walks up and starts talking to me about x topic, he's going to get a lot less of my time and patience (especially if I don't care about the topic) than if a woman does it, and an attractive woman would get more of my time than an ugly one.
I don't think that I'm saying anything outlandish. I'm not saying that all black people are stupid, or that all Mexicans are. I'm saying that, at least in certain areas, black people and hispanics collectively tend to display undesirable (relative to me, of course) characteristics. So, as a general rule, I tend to avoid those people unless there are compelling reasons to do otherwise.
Especially when coupled with other characteristics like undesirable modes of dress and speech.
And if the skin color is associated with those characteristics? Of course I'm going to walk away thinking: "Just another [n-word]."
Not to mention that, when I do talk to black people over an extended period of time, I eventually like to talk about how much I love fried chicken and watermelon...and just laugh and laugh on the inside when they agree with me that fried chicken and watermelon are delicious.
But here's my question: So what?
If I don't go out of my way to make peoples' lives difficult, and if I don't go out of my way to be rude to people based on the color of their skin, and I don't hold any obviously heretical beliefs (for example, the intrinsic inferiority of certain races of people), then so what?
Have I joked about arbitrarily failing black and mexican students when I start teaching? Of course. Am I actually going to do that? No.
All that I'm saying is that a multicultural society isn't something that I personally find appealing.
So what? What is it precisely that you find so repulsive?