A man who isn't saved has the ability to do, what I'll call: Worldly good. Examples; helping the poor, loving others, providing for their families, giving financial help to less privileged folks, sacrificing for the good of others, kind gestures, working in a soup kitchen, etc. These are ALL good things.
Civil good acts are but the providence of God in restraining the evil pervading every breath of the lost. These acts are never done by the lost with the proper motives, to glorify God.
Unsaved man is capable of doing good things in this fleshly world of ours. We see it every day. Not ALL men are depraved, creatures of darkness seeking the blood of the innocent. Unsaved man is capable of choosing "Worldly" good and bad.
All the actions of the non-believer are not good in the eyes of God. These acts are filthy rags in God's eyes for these acts are not done in His name and for His glory. You are trying to make a case that the lost can actually not sin, yet Scripture declares these attempts at good deeds to be an unpleasant foul odor to God.
Without Christ in them and they in Him, their righteousness (from God's standpoint) is as filthy rags/worthless. Worldly good works/deeds are worthless before our righteous God. The unsaved can choose to do good works/deeds, but those same good works will not gain them eternal life.
How does this make your claim that the non-believer is able to not sin? It appears to me you are actually making my own point about the moral inability of the lost. The inability of the lost touches every facet of their nature: mind, will, emotions, body. The non-believer's inability to not sin does not mean that they are as completely evil as they might be, in everything they do, or that as a result of the Fall, they are unable to perform any actions at all that may be considered civil good (from a standpoint of conformance to moral law and God-given conscience). Yet it is only in relation to God can the "
goodness" of human actions truly be judged. Although fallen persons are capable of externally good acts (acts that are good for society), they cannot do anything really good, i.e., pleasing to God (Romans 8:8). God, however, looks on the heart. And from His ultimate standpoint, fallen man has no goodness, in thought, word, or deed. He is therefore incapable of contributing anything to his salvation.
It is good that most non-believers do not kill and that some non-believers perform acts of benevolence. What we mean when we call such actions "
good" is that they more or less conform to the external pattern of life that God has commanded in Scripture.
However, such outward conformity to the revealed will of God is not righteousness in relation to God. It is not done out of reliance on Him or for His glory. God is not trusted for the resources, though God gives them all. Nor is God's honor exalted, even though that's His will in all things (1 Cor. 10:31). Therefore even these "
good" acts are part of our rebellion and are not "
good" in the sense that really counts in the end, in relation to God. Whatever does not proceed from faith is sin (Rom. 14:23). This is a radical indictment of all natural "
virtue" that does not flow from a heart humbly relying on God's grace.
Scripture portrays
fallen man as the walking dead (Ephesians 2:1-2); blinded to the truth of the gospel (2 Cor 4:4); enslaved and led by sinful, fleshly desires (Eph 2:3, John 8:34, James 1:4-15), and also by Satan (1 John 5:19; Eph 2:2, 2 Tim 2:26); in the non-believers' consciences awareness that the things they do are wrong, yet suppressing the truth of that knowledge as they progressively sink into evil (Romans 1:18-32), and store up for themselves the wrath of God (Romans 2:5). In their unrighteousness, they are not seeking God (Romans 3:10-11) nor do they acknowledge and worship Him; rather, they worship and follow after gods we have made (Romans 1:21-23). The non-believers are alienated from the life of God; disobedient, led astray, envious, malicious, hating, and being hated (Titus 3:3); not only are they darkened in understanding and hard-hearted, but also they personify "
darkness" (Ephesians 4:18, Colossians 1:13,21, Ephesians 5:8); they are separated from Christ, excluded from God's covenant promises, without hope and without God in the world (Ephesians 2:12). And unless they believe, they remain under the wrath of God (John 3:36). Anyone "
in the flesh" (unregenerated, not "born again", not believing in Our Lord) cannot and will not please God (Romans 8:8). If what you are claiming is true, that the non-believer can actually not sin regularly, you are actually claiming God is pleased with the non-believer.
So, apart from Christ we were
dead (Ephesians 2:1),
dead (Colossians 2:13), and
dead (Ephesians 2:5).
Ephesians 2:4-9 (NKJV)
Ephesians 2:4 But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us,
Ephesians 2:5 even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved),
Ephesians 2:6 and raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,
Ephesians 2:7 that in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.
Ephesians 2:8 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God,
Ephesians 2:9 not of works, lest anyone should boast.
Colossians 2:13-15 (NKJV)
Colossians 2:13 And you, being dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He has made alive together with Him, having forgiven you all trespasses,
Colossians 2:14 having wiped out the handwriting of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us. And He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross.
Colossians 2:15 Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it.
Unless God changes the disposition of the non-believer's sinful heart, he will never choose to cooperate with grace or embrace Christ in faith. These are the very things to which the flesh is indisposed. If God merely
offers to change the heart, what will that accomplish as long as the heart remains opposed to Him? If God
offers grace while the non-believer is a slave to sin and still in the flesh, what good is the offer?
Saving grace does not offer liberation, it liberates. This is what makes grace so gracious: God unilaterally and monergistically does for us what we cannot do for ourselves.
AMR