Agape4Robin said:
Beanie, perhaps I'm a little slow but, is what they are saying about you true? Are you a homosexual?
Yes, I am homosexual.
I understand that some people believe that it is against Christian doctrine, and that I will go to hell.
Other people do not, and theologians are divided on the issue.
The point of the thread is whether it is in keeping with the instructions of Jesus how to behave if you are using harmful words. Well, actually, this thread is talking about the word faggot, but in the big picture, is it okay, for example, to say to someone "You are a big fat cow! Repent from your gluttony, you disgusting mass of fat!"
Will that have any positive results, other than to make yourself feel superior?
But I'm willing to keep this to the one word, faggot, if that is preferred.
I've already stated that I've heard people say that, and I don't really care. I was just surprised to hear sailor talk coming from the "saved", but I suppose the saved are not all that different from the unsaved - we all fall short of the glory of God. .
In psychology, we learned about words and their psychological impact. During WWII, Japanese were called Japs or Gooks, because it dehumanizes them, and is then easier to kill something you don't see as human. The same is said with nigger - it's easier to enslave someone who you don't see as human (in fact, some wondered if the negroes had souls.)
So, the more you use negative, derogatory words, the less compassion you have, the less you are able to love.
The bible says that one is to love their enemy, but how can you love the enemy if you can't even act respectable to them? How can you truly try to win the heart of someone to Christ if you are screaming at them, or threatening them?
Some believe that is the only approach that works. I disagree. Fred Phelps isn't having much effect, except for showing the coldness of his heart.