Right I'll try and explain this slowly this time.
Forgiveness is not a word that has a single meaning, it conveys many different things, some of which are interchangeable and some which are not.
One meaning is that of overlooking an offense, treating the offender as though they had not committed an offense i.e. treating them as though they were not guilty - (even though they are guilty).
One might think of this as being gracious.
Another meaning is that of paying the price or penalty incurred by an offense. With this meaning the offender is still treated as though they were not guilty, but this time as the penalty has been paid they are in effect now not guilty of committing the offense. Think of this as remission.
Now what I am trying to say is that after Adam & Eve did their thang way back when - God was gracious, he chose to not kill them straight away but rather instituted a limited atonement through the Law while arranging for remission of their debt to occur through Christ.
So we have two stages to forgiveness if you like a graciousness, which consists of an overlooking of an offense ie not holding an offense against the offender. And an actual remission of the offense ie where the offender is actually justified by a payment of the penalty due for committing the offense.
Now when I say God had to forgive us before Christ could pay the debt we owed I mean the first sense of the word, that of not holding the offense we were guilty of against us. Now notice even though God is choosing not to hold our offense against us we ARE guilty of it. We are still sinners who face a penalty (death) for the offense we committed even though we can achieve a limited atonement via the Law. Our sins are still marked against our account at this stage.
What Christ did for us by going to the cross was to pay the penalty for the offense so that when we fulfill the conditions required ie repentance then we become not guilty of the offense. Christ in essence has said to us "Look, I know your guilty of this and the only way for the debt to be paid is for you to die. But, I'll die for you and pay the price for you - all you have to do is follow me and you will be free and clear." In essence at this stage if we repent then the sins that are being held against our account are transferred onto Christ's account.
Now I feel that when someone committs an offense against us our Christian duty is to 'forgive' them unconditionally. But what I mean by this is that first sense of the word forgive - the not holding the offense against them. We can not fulfill the second stage of forgiveness until they repent - when they repent then we have the obligation to clear their account as it were.
I hope that this makes a bit clearer what I'm saying?
Forgiveness is not a word that has a single meaning, it conveys many different things, some of which are interchangeable and some which are not.
One meaning is that of overlooking an offense, treating the offender as though they had not committed an offense i.e. treating them as though they were not guilty - (even though they are guilty).
One might think of this as being gracious.
Another meaning is that of paying the price or penalty incurred by an offense. With this meaning the offender is still treated as though they were not guilty, but this time as the penalty has been paid they are in effect now not guilty of committing the offense. Think of this as remission.
Now what I am trying to say is that after Adam & Eve did their thang way back when - God was gracious, he chose to not kill them straight away but rather instituted a limited atonement through the Law while arranging for remission of their debt to occur through Christ.
So we have two stages to forgiveness if you like a graciousness, which consists of an overlooking of an offense ie not holding an offense against the offender. And an actual remission of the offense ie where the offender is actually justified by a payment of the penalty due for committing the offense.
Now when I say God had to forgive us before Christ could pay the debt we owed I mean the first sense of the word, that of not holding the offense we were guilty of against us. Now notice even though God is choosing not to hold our offense against us we ARE guilty of it. We are still sinners who face a penalty (death) for the offense we committed even though we can achieve a limited atonement via the Law. Our sins are still marked against our account at this stage.
What Christ did for us by going to the cross was to pay the penalty for the offense so that when we fulfill the conditions required ie repentance then we become not guilty of the offense. Christ in essence has said to us "Look, I know your guilty of this and the only way for the debt to be paid is for you to die. But, I'll die for you and pay the price for you - all you have to do is follow me and you will be free and clear." In essence at this stage if we repent then the sins that are being held against our account are transferred onto Christ's account.
Now I feel that when someone committs an offense against us our Christian duty is to 'forgive' them unconditionally. But what I mean by this is that first sense of the word forgive - the not holding the offense against them. We can not fulfill the second stage of forgiveness until they repent - when they repent then we have the obligation to clear their account as it were.
I hope that this makes a bit clearer what I'm saying?