If you forbade her to do something, it was probably because it was wrong. Then you turned around and told her to do what you forbade her to do, thus she is doing wrong. It's not that hard to see.
The ends justify the means? I think not.
If I rape a woman who walks in a bad neighborhood to teach her not to walk in bad neighborhoods, and she doesn't anymore, am I justified in having done that, because she learned from it?
And from God's perspective, He causes everyone to sin, but only reconciles a few to Himself. How is God just in condemning the rest?
Muz