It's a common occurrence with alcoholics to blame those around them for their negative predicaments. Playing the victim, and fostering resentments provides them with an endless, ongoing excuse to get drunk. And because most alcoholics don't want to acknowledge that they are alcoholic, and that this is why they always want to get drunk, they need to have those excuses always at the ready.
But that makes life very difficult for those who love or live with the alcoholic, because they're always being blamed by the alcoholic for the perpetual state of crisis that the alcoholic life brings with it. And it's sometimes hard for the loved ones to understand, and to remember that it's NOT THEIR FAULT. Alcoholics drink because they are alcoholic. And their lives become an endless chain of crises because drinking alcohol makes people make bad decisions, and behave like idiots. And none of this is anyone else's fault. It's just the nature of the addiction.
If anyone is reading this and living with an alcoholic, and is feeling like it's somehow their fault that the alcoholic drinks, or their responsibility to keep the alcoholic from drinking. Please understand that it's NOT YOUR FAULT, and it's not your responsibility to stop them from getting drunk. Don't let them put that on you. And refuse to accept it if they try.