No, I'd like to think that neither of us would let that happen. And on the second part, quite possible, but there's also a Biblical precedent: Amos 8:11.
If you and I argue at all on this, it'll be in private. I refuse to provide fodder for anyone who's at odds with either you or me. But I appreciate the 'gently' part.
You'll be interested in talking to the newbie. She's an attorney, 46, works with at-risk children, and is a new foster parent. My first-impression radar is positive.
Tried to give you a rep message but I have to spread it around....I'm planning to let your last post in that thread stand as the last word. I don't really see it going anywhere. Maybe I'll come back to it later.