I tend not to believe people when they say they have three jobs. 8 x 3 = 24 = the number of hours in a day.
So, you're the Beta she married to help raise her children. I don't associate with women who chose poorly and want me to pick up the pieces. Some women tend to be attracted to a certain type of man who sleeps around. Yes, I do blame the women for making a poor choice of spouse.
If a woman is widowed, that's one thing. But a woman who is left by her whatever either made a poor choice or behaved so badly, she drove the man away. It doesn't look good for her in either case. However, if she recognizes that she made a mistake, I would overlook it.
Too late now, but her talking about her former husband is a warning sign to stay away.
Yes, I believe a lot of women do not take responsibility for their choices in life.
Like mother, like daughter. But you likely came too late in the game to have an influence over her. The sooner you tell her that her decision to choose that lousy boyfriend caused her the misery she is in, the sooner she might be saved.
The stories you've shared are pleasant compared to what I've seen.
Your wife is not a victim. She chose her first husband and also chose to have children with him. She chose a husband who would leave her. She needs to take responsibility for her choices.
Your daughter chose a boyfriend. And she chose to have sex with him and get pregnant by him. Your wife chose not to supervise her daughter and participate in her life. They are not victims.
Victims don't choose their fate.
You tell me that I'm naive, yet your step daughter seems to think that everyone is good and evil doesn't exist. You can't see that it is possible your step daughter is not Christian. You can't see that it is possible your wife is using you. I know plenty about evil.
Don't fall for the left's victim culture. I'm not sure what happened between the father and the mother, but I'm pretty sure it was consensual and relatively sure it was outside of marriage. Both the father and the mother share responsibility for their bad choice. The situation may not be optimal for the child, but If I had the choice between this and being born in North Korea, I'd choose the former. So, I don't see how he was victimized by his birth.
Low birth does not make you a victim.
This is ludicrous. The school was free and provided at a cost which she'll never repay in taxes unless she wins the lottery. She was allowed to vote and choose the representatives who would run the school for her free of charge. She was allowed to protest at the school. She was allowed to contact the school and her teachers. She was allowed to demand all information about her son. Two things.
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
Receiving a "lousy" gift does not make you a victim.
You sound like the NYT - if someone criticizing you, you're a victim.
Being criticized does not make you a victim.
Hey, your step-daughter can still become a Christian or return to Christ. She won't be able to do so if like Adam, she blames her partner. She chose her boyfriend, she chose to have sex, she chose to get an abortion. She needs to own it.
I'm not going to answer this entire post.
So, among your other fantasies you think everyone works full time jobs. Did you know that during the Obama administration more than 90% of the jobs created were part time jobs? And it took time for Trump to turn around the trend. Do you know that, unlike in the 70s and 80s and earlier, a person is considered "fully employed" even if they only work part time? Another one of the lies the government tells us.
Where I live the vast majority of private jobs are part time employment. The largest employer here is Walmart. And they hire very few full time employees outside of management position. Small businesses also hire a lot of part time employees. Did you know that overall in the US 60% of women work part time and 35% of men work part time? That's BoL statistics.
The rest of your post is assuming things I did not say nor do i think.
Have you ever studied what happens to abused women? They end up suffering from something very like Stockholm syndrome. We did everything we could to help my stepdaughter to make better choices. However, from a young age, 8 or 9, she would sit and cry because she didn't think she would ever have a boyfriend or husband. She came out of a home where her biological father was extremely abusive. She married, as most women do, someone just like her father. And yes, he was/is very abusive. Yes, she made bad choices, but the abuse she went through and the dysfunctional relationships on both sides of her biological family set her terrible examples. What was "normal" to her was very abnormal. It was multi-generational abuse on both sides of her parent's families.
You make it sound so simple. Unfortunately it isn't. When a person is taught by example that they cannot trust people it's not easy to overcome that. I know. I was taught by my family that no one was to be trusted. That fair play was a myth and justice something never seen. The only way I ever learned different was through a couple of caring teachers and God inserting Himself in my life. I don't hate teachers. During my growing up years a couple of them actually did a lot to try to help me. I look back on those teachers with great affection.
As to your earlier assertion that I'm just trying to make teachers look bad, that's bunk. If you had actually read what I said you would realize that I said the entire educational system had failed this kid. That teachers don't make sure parents are involved and notified when their kids are failing school isn't their failure entirely. The school system itself doesn't make sure it happens. Look at that Baltimore school system. The kid had a 0.13 gpa and he was in the top half of his class. Really? There's that many 80 IQs in Baltimore? That's a failure of the entire school system. Nobody in that school system cares if those kids learn anything. The kid missed 272 school days and wasn't suspended many times for that miserable attendance record? There is no mention of any suspensions in that article. That's the school system's fault, not the failure of any teacher for it is the school's administration that is supposed to suspend the kid and report it to the parent. I'm sure glad I never had to attend a school system like that. That's the Democrat plantation system at work to keep blacks from knowing enough to succeed. It's blatant racism on their part.
Baltimore says they have had a low unemployment rate. However, what the employment department count's as being "employed" is have done even an hour's worth of work in a week. What do you think the real unemployment rate is? My guess is it is 4 or 5 times the official numbers: probably an average of 6-7% before the coronavirus madness. That means employers have been/are taking advantage of employees. They are working them few enough hours a week to not have to pay for benefits which means many more part time jobs than full-time jobs. A 4 hour shift is a natural break point in the work day. Which points to a 20 hour work week for most low-skilled employees and even moderately skilled employees in this madness of the government's response to the coronavirus. This happens all over our nation. It's a norm not an exception but it's been that way for years.
Have you ever researched how many times the unemployment numbers have been manipulated? How about the inflation numbers? These things have a very direct effect on what it takes to survive from day to day.