I also think it is baiting. It goes like this:
A: You are a ****ing ******er that *******s every night with *******s. You digusting ******ing pile of ****.
B: What the hell are you babbling about?
A: Moderator!!! B used the word hell!
Moderator: B, this is your one and final warning....
TOL is a place to foster a conservative belief, but as long as you tow the party line, you can be sexually graphic, use innuendo, be vulgar, arrogant, rude, etc.
If you don't tow the party line, and question these tactics, you are held to a higher standard.
I see the latter as a blessing. Better to have strictness applied to you, than to have free reign, digging oneself into the pits of hell, and even being lent a hand.
Mathew 15:
17"Anything you eat passes through the stomach and then goes out of the body. 18But evil words come from an evil heart and defile the person who says them. 19For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all other sexual immorality, theft, lying, and slander.
Buddhism teaches that one should have purity of thought, because from there, will come purity of speech, and purity of action. But if one has filthy thoughts, it will come out of their mouth in unpure speech, and hateful action.
I am convinced that while posters such as julie21 have clearly stated that they oppose homosexuality, they are still attacked for the rebuke of not acting Godly by false christians who choose their behavior over the rebuke, who do not reflect on what they are rebuked for. Their goal is to maintain their hostility at the world, to bring discord over peace, to exhalt themselves over sinners, to justify hatred and contempt. Any challenge to that causes a threat, and the person is therefore attacked, called a fool or crazy, called "too nice," or any other lie that falls off their tongue. And that should be expected. Darkness does not like to be brought into the light.
In a world that is cold and selfish, should one ever worry about being "too loving"? Are we all so full of love, that we act overly loving? Is it possible to be overly loving?
If anything, this place shows me the cruelty of the world, some of the sickness of the church, and the pockets of goodness that can be found amongst it. It strengthens those who suffer for righteousness sake, challenges you to turn to the bible to see when verses are being misused by the saved, and to really seek The Light. For all of those things, I am very grateful.