Canard #1, Calvinists love and believe in John 3:16 and believe, like pretty well everyone else, that anyone who believes in Christ will not perish but have everlasting life.
Next.....
Which the Calvinists actually believe far more than you do, Pate.
How many of those that Christ died to save for exhaust God's long-suffering and perish in the fires of hell because God's patients ran out on them, hhmm Pate?
50%? 60%? 70% or more?
You see, we Calvinists actually believe that God is long suffering and unwilling that any of the elect should perish and we believe that 0% of those Christ died to save will perish.
Its actually the Calvinist that believes that verse.
Amen.
Pate's obejction here paraphrased:
" You will say to me then, "Why does he still find fault? For who can resist his will?" (Rom 9:19 ESV)
The Apostle Paul's answer:
"But who are you, O man, to answer back to God? Will what is molded say to its molder, "Why have you made me like this?" Has the potter no right over the clay, to make out of the same lump one vessel for honorable use and another for dishonorable use? What if God, desiring to show his wrath and to make known his power, has endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction,in order to make known the riches of his glory for vessels of mercy, which he has prepared beforehand for glory--
(Rom 9:20-23 ESV)
Robert, You aren't going to get a better answer than the one Paul gives you.
Why do you think people reject God's Son in the first place.
Hint, the answer has everything to do with the depravity of the human soul.
Who are you, Oh Robert Pate to talk back to God?
If you believe that God creates reprobates so that he can send them to hell, then you have no right to call yourself a Christian. That doctrine came right out of the pits of hell.
Man is not so far depraved that he cannot hear and believe the Gospel. Thousands heard and believed the Gospel on the day of Pentecost, Acts 2:41. Some of which participated in the crucifixon of Christ, Acts 2:36.
"Faith comes by hearing and believing the Gospel" Romans 10:17.
You need to call on Christ to save you, Romans 10:13.