How much choice do you think she had, considering how obvious it is who holds the power dynamic? I haven't forgotten Ivana's rape allegation, which I found very credible.
Here's what I know... When they met she was 28. She rejected his initial advances to gauge his seriousness and intent. That tells me she's shrewd enough. She purportedly speaks several languages. When asked to comment on her husband's stand on immigration and his comments about Mexican illegals she agreed with him. She told CNN that she gives him her opinion, agree or not. He's said the same thing. She didn't look pained, frightened or withdrawn in that interview. She was believable.
It doesn't mean she thought she would ever have to take on the role of First Lady.
It means she had to consider the possibility. It was right there in front of her, however remote the likelihood might have seemed at the time. The interest was there. She'd seen what he'd done with his financial empire.
But you've set the table for the implication.
A bit more than that, again...but again, if your narrative is true love based on mutual respect and a deepening appreciation for one another, I can't see it. I can't look at him and see it, but anything is possible in the world. Now is possible likely? Not in my experience. I've spent a lot of my life among tiers of that set where old men take young wives. True love is rarely the foundation, though successful business deals of all sorts are struck with unsurprising regularity.
She's followed orders, probably not even knowing the whys behind them.
I don't think you give her enough credit. I have no reason to believe she's anything but a smart woman of sufficient years and seasoning among the powerful to understand the rules, and understand her part in it.
For her as opposed to whom? I came right out and said I had empathy for her, so I don't know why you're repeating it as if it's a new observation on your part, so you've left me puzzled in turn.
This would be a great place to use your,
I'm sorry you don't see my point and I'm not inclined to explain it at the moment.
I emphasized the
her. She
shares his vision. To me it's a bit like feeling sympathy for a collaborator. If you think he's odious, his policies suspect where they aren't morally objectionable, etc., then his helper, supporter and by and large agreeing wife doesn't merit much of a different treatment.
Since Trump never apologizes and he's already demonstrated what an out-of-control egomaniac he is
The man she loves? The man she didn't marry for access to more power and wealth? What is it she's suppose to find attractive outside of that power again?
who's to say that he told her in no uncertain terms that she wasn't to admit to anything?
Again, a bright woman old enough to be credited with her own mind and speak it. She's criticized his Tweeting and differed on "acting presidential". That doesn't sound cowed to me.
You know what? I wouldn't want the job of First Lady, not for anything.
Me either, though I have the legs for it.
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I'm not going to judge her in the same way I judge Trump, and I hope she's not treated with the same viciousness that Michelle had to endure.
I'm already on record agreeing with you on the idea of vicious attacks. It's hard to imagine what could be used on a privileged white woman that could come close, but I'm against the effort.
And because she's enjoyed a life of privilege that few ever know, I hope she finds a way to connect with the people in a way that's genuine and authentic, particularly the less fortunate who will be affected by her husband's policies.
That would be terrific. That would be huge. But you know what? They're her policies as well. They belong to everyone who agrees with what he does and who put him in the place to do it.