I am usually amused by such discussions, although I used to allow myself to get upset at times.
Who here is willing to define the term "cult"?
Let us see what the English dictionary states.
Webster's states "a particular ritual or system or system of worship; a subject of special study; devoted or extravagant homage or adoration"
Do those who push water baptism fit that description? Yes.
Do those who push Calvinism fit that description? Yes.
See I grew up in a cult. My father made us go to his "church" against our free will. This cult has a very evil past. There was a time that when a couple asked one of their officials to marry them, the official would marry them only if they agreed to let the official have sex with the woman first.
My dad also told me that when wars erupted where he grew up, the officials of both warring countries would tell their people that if they died in battle they would go to heaven. Yet they were fighting each other.
The leaders wear special clothing at all times, like the Hari Krishnas and other Eastern religions do, to signify how special they are, like the Pharisees of Jesus time did. All their actions were for show, again like the Pharisees. Their clothing was particularly significant during their weekly rituals in which they celebrated resacrificing their leader
Of course, they maintain that they are the only true church and that you are doomed to suffer in eternal hellfire if you disobeyed their rules and especially so if you left their organization, ie, their control.
They use the Bible, more as an ornament, than a source for their beliefs.
There was rumors floating about that the male officials and female officials were secretly having sex with each other though their vows forbade them from ever having sex or becoming married ever again.
They believe that dead people are actually alive, I wondered why then they would do all their particular rituals for "dead" people, if indeed they are actually alive, why not put these "dead" alive (or should I say alive dead ) people in chairs in their living rooms instead of burying them alive. After all they believed that the dead people could hear them and could answer their prayers from beyond the grave.
Seemed they have official rituals for everything.
One of their churches claimed to have the foreskin of Jesus Christ. They believed that in order for their meeting buildings to have any holiness about them, they had to have a icon from Bible times, like bones from the apostle Peter or as stated, the foreskin of Jesus Christ. It is a creepy thing to think that they would worship someone's foreskin instead of following the example and teachings of Jesus Christ.
As I understood their doctrines, they believe that their official leader was the only official representative of Jesus Christ
They believed that only some of their alive dead people were saints and only after official review and counsel regarding what they determined what was worthy of sainthood. I wonder if they had instant replay of their holy people's lives or what?
Seemed like if someone actually got an answer to a prayer, especially if praying to a dead person, they would be considered for saint hood.
No one knew if they were actually saved or not, they denied the works of Jesus Christ, they believed they had to suffer to obtains salvation, as if the sufferings of Jesus Christ are a waste of their time.
Although, I will admit they did actually refer to scripture a times they did not take it very seriously.
They are more serious about their man made traditions than scripture.
Simple truths like Matthew 2:11 eluded them, they always portrayed three wise men showing up at the manger at the inn in Bethlehem instead of an showing up at a house to see a young child, not a newborn, and they claimed to have special knowledge that there were three wise men although, scripture does not say how many there were.
Neither can they count to three. Matthew 12:40. They celebrate the death of Jesus Christ and claim he died on Friday and got up by himself from the dead on Sunday morning. No one in their right mind can count three days and three nights from Friday afternoon to Sunday morning.
I could go on, but you get the picture. These were some bad, bad people.
Thank God my mother and her side of the family were Lutherans so I had some reasons to question my dad's (loosely speaking, he was not a fanatic about his) beliefs.
I escaped from that system of beliefs and was able to learn scriptures from people who take scripture seriously who do not claim to know everything there is to know about God and His son and scripture, but readily admit, they love to learn and are willing to teach what they have learned up to know.
Yes, I find the topics of "cults" most interesting having grown up in one.