It's pretty simple. Any civilized society
Define "civilized" and explain why I should accept your standard.
(or something resembling)
See above.
Well, except for the unborn, you're allowed to murder them with impunity. But again, why should murder be illegal? You need a foundational reason.
rape, child molestation, abuse, violent assault
Why should any of these things be illegal? What's your basis?
[And if some idiot reads this as advocating legalizing these things rather than challenging the underlying presuppositions, please go listen to Sye Ten Bruggencate before you waste my time with it
Well, except the US and Guantanamo Bay (its a shame that most conservatives don't care about this blatant hypocrisy.) But then, my worldview gives me a basis to challenge the legitimacy of such. Yours does not.
Well, unless the government is the perpetrator, but again, why do you object? What's your presupposition?
Any "state" that wants to impose laws infringing on the human rights
Are you sure "rights" exist? How? Many philosophers deny the idea of rights. do you have a presuppositional ground from which to disagree? I do.
of adults where it comes to consenting relations is an oppressive dictatorship
First off, this doesn't even logically make sense. "dictatorship" is something that deals with the form of government, not the content. Theoretically a dictatorship could protect every human right except the right to elections (if you believe that's an inherent right.) Theoretically a Republic could implement Biblical law (which is my preferred method of doing so, BTW.)
Second of all, why is "consensual" the standard? And, are you consistent here? Should incestuous polygamous marriages be allowed as long as all parties consent? Group marriages? Either way, what's yuor presupposition?
and doesn't fly in the West, nor should it.
But you have only your personal standards by which to claim this. Why shouldn't everyone just ignore them?
Don't like it? Then keep whining or move to somewhere more suited.
Or:
#1: God exists
#2: You Know God Exists
#3: You hate him
#4: You thus lack any philosophical foundation for truth, which leaves you in a position where you cannot do anything but whine about your opponents "whining" and telling them to either love things as they are or leave.
#5: The very few intelligent people in the world laugh at you.