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Skybringr

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Yes, both examples there are sinful, human nature. A wife who withholds sexual favours and a husband who turns to porn as a solution. Why does a wife do that? What other issues in the marriage could make her feel the need to do so? A whole can of worms that opens up for sure.

I posted earlier...

It's almost a predictable thing among many marriages that a woman will demand commitment, get what she wants, lose interest in sex, and eventually leave.

Through the whole matter, it is long and drawn out- faults of the husband start to become fabricated and projected, the women becomes arrogant in her ways and that is where the beginning of the end starts.
Eventually the whole matter becomes about how she feels and while the man is trying to figure things out, she's already determined to test other waters.


This is one of the major typical things in which a divorce ensues- more then double the amount of divorces are issued by the wife and not the husband, it's a statistical fact.
And all the while, feminists are sure to only bring up that men are abusive or inept or whatever when in reality a great many, if not most, marriages fail exactly by what I have detailed.

I mean, that's just reality, and what is done about it?
~This~
Women are consoled and men are snuffed out. Just telling it for what it is, apparently, makes you a ~misogynist~.
It's outrageous.
 

Angel4Truth

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The quickest way to get
your husband into pornography
is to use sex as a manipulation
strategy in your marriage.
Many women do it, and the
strategy always backfires.
If you don't take care of
business, your husband will
look elsewhere. It is human
nature.

Because of course lack of commitment can never have anything to do with that, somehow whatever sin some men commit, its a womans fault.

Funny thing though, Jesus said if you look at another woman with lust you have committed adultery in your heart. I dont see Him blaming your wives.
 

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Quote:
Originally Posted by THall View Post
The quickest way to get
your husband into pornography
is to use sex as a manipulation
strategy in your marriage.
Many women do it, and the
strategy always backfires.
If you don't take care of
business, your husband will
look elsewhere. It is human
nature.

My husband had porn addiction since teen age. Many men has this problem and you blame women for it?

what a coward.
 

The 5 solas

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It's almost a predictable thing among many marriages that a woman will demand commitment, get what she wants, lose interest in sex, and eventually leave.


Every single post you put up is stating it is the woman's fault. My post was recognizing that sin is often crouching at both of their doors. I think that is true in most cases.
 

Skybringr

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Many men has this problem and you blame women for it?

People have sexual urges, and one of the things about marriage being so important to the human race is so those urges are contained between husband and wife.

It's a self evident truth, and when sex is withheld, the relationship can become disturbed rather quickly. What real difference is it if a man masturbates in the shower or looks at porn? The women becomes jealous with one and not the other? All of a sudden she's the victim..

If his wife is not letting him release his urges for weeks, even months on end, then she is affronting the holy rite of marriage; destroying it, causing the problem.
 

meshak

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People have sexual urges, and one of the things about marriage being so important to the human race is so those urges are contained between husband and wife.

So you advocate sinning because of this urge.

Self control is one the spirit we must learn to posses.
 

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The quickest way to get
your husband into pornography
is to use sex as a manipulation
strategy in your marriage.
Many women do it, and the
strategy always backfires.
If you don't take care of
business, your husband will
look elsewhere. It is human
nature.

Way to justify adultery ....
 

Skybringr

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So you advocate sinning because of this urge.

Self control is one the spirit we must learn to posses.

I don't advocate anything, what I'm saying is that sex is a powerful urge and when a wife is forcing their husband to remain chaste for weeks and months on end, expecting that they cannot release that powerful urge..
that is just plain ~anathema~ of any marriage.
Yes, the woman does have the greater sin. To hear women try to further force the teaching that peering on another woman is adultery- such women shouldn't even get married. *What the hell is that, seriously*

This is one of the many things of why I'm am fantastically anti-feminist. Complete garbage, this why marriages so often fail, this errant thinking and utter failure of women's accountability.
 

The 5 solas

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People have sexual urges, and one of the things about marriage being so important to the human race is so those urges are contained between husband and wife.

It's a self evident truth, and when sex is withheld, the relationship can become disturbed rather quickly. What real difference is it if a man masturbates in the shower or looks at porn? The women becomes jealous with one and not the other? All of a sudden she's the victim..

If his wife is not letting him release his urges for weeks, even months on end, then she is affronting the holy rite of marriage; destroying it, causing the problem.


Well, we are able to have control over our sexual desires. I mean, take the RC priests for example. :chuckle:

The question of masturbating vs porn....I think that is a legit question. Are we allowed to pose that on this board? I am going to try, to get that into another thread and see if it is ok. I think it is a valid question and would like to see what people think.
 

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Because of course lack of commitment can never have anything to do with that, somehow whatever sin some men commit, its a womans fault.

Funny thing though, Jesus said if you look at another woman with lust you have committed adultery in your heart. I dont see Him blaming your wives.

Isn't it interesting how it is two of the men on this thread who are justifying adultery ?
 

Angel4Truth

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People have sexual urges, and one of the things about marriage being so important to the human race is so those urges are contained between husband and wife.

It's a self evident truth, and when sex is withheld, the relationship can become disturbed rather quickly. What real difference is it if a man ---------------- or looks at porn? The women becomes jealous with one and not the other? All of a sudden she's the victim..

If his wife is not letting him release his urges for weeks, even months on end, then she is affronting the holy rite of marriage; destroying it, causing the problem.

You're catholic, sex for you is suppose to be only for procreation. So you are mad that your wife acted like the perpetual virgin that you keep claiming women should be like?

LOL
 

Skybringr

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Well, we are able to have control over our sexual desires. I mean, take the RC priests for example. :chuckle:

The question of masturbating vs porn....I think that is a legit question. Are we allowed to pose that on this board? I am going to try, to get that into another thread and see if it is ok. I think it is a valid question and would like to see what people think.

I'm pretty sure the subject isn't a problem so long as it stays in the bounds of maturity and reason.
~going by other things I've seen discussed~

There is no philosophical difference between the two- pornography simply makes it easier I suppose to visualize and imagine.
But one is doing the same thing in mere masturbation- imagining and visualizing.

This means that either is adultery in the heart.
In all honesty, I believe the teaching is relative only to the mind of a person. I don't think it's actually explicit adultery of the marriage; it's rather a mortal sin to the individual- his or her own adultery in some odd way.

I say this because in all reality, I can't imagine there are much of any marriages period where neither the husband or wife at some point in their life have not, in some brash and rapid thought of the mind, imagined another man or women naked or some such thing.

I'm sure most people will deny it, especially to their spouse, but I just know that taking the verse out of context is far reaching. To take it another way is to say most all people even in good marriages commit adultery.
 

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I'm pretty sure the subject isn't a problem so long as it stays in the bounds of maturity and reason.
~going by other things I've seen discussed~

There is no philosophical difference between the two- pornography simply makes it easier I suppose to visualize and imagine.
But one is doing the same thing in mere masturbation- imagining and visualizing.

This means that either is adultery in the heart.
In all honesty, I believe the teaching is relative only to the mind of a person. I don't think it's actually explicit adultery of the marriage; it's rather a mortal sin to the individual- his or her own adultery in some odd way.

I say this because in all reality, I can't imagine there are much of any marriages period where neither the husband or wife at some point in their life have not, in some brash and rapid thought of the mind, imagined another man or women naked or some such thing.

I'm sure most people will deny it, especially to their spouse, but I just know that taking the verse out of context is far reaching.

Joseph wasnt complaining about what you complain about, in your catholic teaching, do you think yourself better?
 
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