ok doser
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apparently she was wearing something that was inciting, but she won't tell us what it was :idunno:
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apparently she was wearing something that was inciting, but she won't tell us what it was :idunno:
ok doser
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why - do you know for sure that she hasn't been raped?
No I don't.
Would doser like to also concede that rape is not contingent on a women's dress code?
Is not possible for the victim of a rape (actual rape not cry of rape after regret) to incite rape.
incite -urge or persuade (someone) to act in a violent or unlawful way.
Rape -A criminal offense defined in most states as forcible sexual relations with a person against that person's will.
How does one persuade someone else to do something to them against their will?
That is a contradiction.
ok doser
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rather, i would say that a woman's choice of dress along with other behavioral factors , can play a contributory role in increasing her risk of getting raped
yes, you do, otherwise your argument is reduced to "when did you stop beating your wife"
ok doser
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the swathmore student - was she not encouraging her "hook-up" buddy by climbing in bed with him in her jammies?
Bingo, increasing the risk, not causing the crime itself.
No, you said he was asleep when she climbed in the bed.
She didnt encourage him, but she didnt try to stop him - she should have made him leave.
genuineoriginal
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If it is really rape, the rapist should be put to death.
No, these "far out scenarios" are now representative of the majority of reported rapes.
Do we want to deal with facts or speculation?
If you cannot connect her and her dress code to rape, then her dress code can't be entered as having any bearing for a rape case.
ok doser
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i dunno - if i'm sleeping in bed and my sex partner climbs in next to me in her jammies (remember, we're talking about dorm room beds - unless they've changed, you're automatically snuggling up to each other), i'm gonna feel encouraged
You realize that many rape victims do not report the crime because of the stigma attached which hints at their complicity in the crime.
Better to just drop it and move on.
whitestone
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you ain't kiddin,,,if a man dresses up like a cowboy and goes into a bar,,well they'll dance,but if a man goes into a bar after work in coveralls that say Halliburton on them,,,well money begets girlfriends don't it?,,,
I agree.
If it is not possible, then no amount of dress code or behavior code would make it possible.
What you feel and what she actually did, are not the same.
Where she screwed up totally that made it not rape, was allowing it when he started messing with her again, she didnt say stop, didnt try to stop him, and didnt insist on him leaving and by her own admission
"i was tired so i just let him" thats implied consent. Then the fact that they had had, consentual sex many times before, made that implied consent even greater.
ok doser
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tam posted: "Then I guess her dress code is not a factor for rape."
i responded: "why - do you know for sure that she hasn't been raped?"
the fact is, i don't have any idea whether miley cyrus has been raped
that doesn't stop me from being certain that her style of (un)dress would likely be a contributory factor in many situations
i responded: "why - do you know for sure that she hasn't been raped?"
the fact is, i don't have any idea whether miley cyrus has been raped
that doesn't stop me from being certain that her style of (un)dress would likely be a contributory factor in many situations
ok doser
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Alright, you like that word better than incite.
What should I have been wearing so as to not encourage the 4 animals that raped me?
genuineoriginal
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The man wasn't awake enough to know what was being said.
The woman had no respect for the sleeping man who couldn't even consent to her climbing into bed and having sex with him.
The woman climbed into the bed of a sleeping man and had sex with him.
That makes her the rapist.
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