To the one sentence in your post. The rest was waffle, of course.
A caring community would provide for the medicare, subsistence, education, welfare and support as necessary for all children.
You don't believe in a caring community but you want to meddle with and manipulate all women's (and couples') lives.
You rant on about retarded people, but you wouldn't offer a dime towards the support and care for low intellect, slow, impaired, disabled, autistic and other needy children, but you'll demand that they be born. You wouldn't offer a fully paid up life for the children out of rape but you'll demand that the mother carry the foetus to birth.... probably blame her if I know you.
You're on an hypocritical and immoral path there, so don't pull that one with me........ I know you better.