So nobody can simply hear, believe, and trust Jesus Christ on their own ? It just was or wasn't meant to be ?
By "on their own" I assume you mean the person possesses the moral ability to choose to call upon the name of the Lord. If so, I believe the answer is a decidedly "no".
Why? All are born sinners in Adam.
Adam was our federal representative, the representative of all future progeny of Adam. When Adam disobeyed, all mankind fell with him. We all sin because we are sinners. In our fallen and corrupted state, there is total inability to do good in the eyes of God. Even the "good" the lost do, such as giving to charity, walking the old lady across the road, etc., is done with the wrong motives, not done for the glory of God.
Left to their own wills, the lost will never call upon the name of the Lord, for their are quite literally spiritually dead...not wounded...but dead. Indeed, the unbeliever
- is
deceitful and
desperately sick (Jer. 17:9);
- is
full of evil (Mark 7:21-23);
-
loves darkness rather than light (John 3:19);
- is unrighteous, does not understand,
does not seek for God (Rom. 3:10-12);
- is
helpless and
ungodly (Rom. 5:6);
- is
dead in his trespasses and sins (Eph. 2:1);
- is by nature a
child of wrath (Eph. 2:3);
-
cannot understand spiritual things (1 Cor. 2:14); and
- is a
slave of sin (Rom. 6:16-20).
Clearly from the above small sampling of the many teachings in Holy Writ about the
total inability of the lost—Jer. 17:9; Mark 7:21-23; John 3:19; Rom. 3:10-12; 5:6; 6:16-20; Eph. 2:1,3;1 Cor. 2:14—it is clear that the lost have
no moral ability to seek after the righteousness of God.
It is only
when God the Holy Spirit
regeneratively replaces their lost hearts of stone with one of flesh (Eze. 36:26) that the lost are given the moral ability to believe and then
irrevocably evidence
the first fruits of their regeneration—faith and repentance.
We should be in awe that God saves anyone, for all are born fallen
in Adam and deserve no mercy from God. The miracle is that God mercifully saves even one person, and not the great many that cannot be numbered. Would that all give God
all the glory (one-hundred percent) for their salvation rather than clinging on to some humanistic notion of their own wisdom, their supposed openness to being "wooed" by the Holy Spirit, choosing rightly while their neighbor chooses wrongly, etc.
And, yes, from God's perspective, what happens cannot
not happen, for all that happens ultimately derives its actuality from God, Who upholds the universe using the various secondary means of His created order. This should give us great comfort, for it teaches us that God, perfectly holy, is directly involved in His universe, bringing about all that happens for the glory He deserves.
AMR