I could go into this pretty deep. Whereas Paul was the Pharisee of Pharisees, I was the poster child of abuse. Where was God when I was going through it? There were times death would have been welcome to ending the torturous.
Where was God? Was God working all things for good? What good came from it? Why is it allowed? I honestly believe the rain falls on the just and the unjust. The difference, IMO is in the content of the receiver. I had a lot of deep soul searching as a child. If you doubt the severity, PM me but I don't believe it appropriate in open thread. As a child I had begged God to take me home. As an adult, I believe what I went through 1) helps me realize hell is no place I ever want to go again 2) emphathize with others as they go through their own 3) has drawn me closer to God in dependence upon Him 4) has taught me where God was the whole time, right beside me.
And that's one of the things that God's healing brings: The ability to help others. However, that doesn't make God the cause of your abuse.
(And I do not doubt the depth of your claim. You have shown yourself to be trustworthy, and I trust your word on this matter.)
However, this doesn't go back to the original question: Did God decide to actualized the fact of your abuse before creation, or did your abuse occur as the result of an evil individual committing sin against you, against God's will?
In the former case, God is the author of the evil committed against you. If you want to try to justify that by saying that He ultimately made good come out of it, that's fine, but you still have God as the perpetrator,as well.
Isn't it more of a stretch to say that Jesus didn't know Peter would deny Him 3 times? Isn't it more of a stretch to say 300 years later Josiah would be born as a very good guess? Why name names if prophecy is so broad as to be an educated guess? Did John really see or hear anything about the future in his vision? The natural rendering is that he was brought to heaven as he himself claims. OV seems absurd to me on these points. Perhaps our sensibilities are vastly different. I don't want to be egocentric but the majority of believers have not been OV. You have to own that troublesome reality for what it is and realize if you are just pitting sensibilities, tradition tends to trump. The Jews believe(d) in EDF. It is in their old commentaries. Catholics have believed in EDF, it is in their scripture portions clearly.
Again, my questions come back to whether these are the core elements of the gospel. Is the question of how Jesus knew Peter would deny Him three times really core to understanding our relationship to God and how He saves us? Is the question of the naming of Josiah really as important as why sinners are under God's wrath?
OVT deals with the larger issues much more effectively, and has an answer for the smaller ones, even if they seem out of place to you.
OTOH, in a compatiblist or determinist model, the problem of evil is significant in trying to explain justification and wrath.
For our discussion, I don't have a problem so much with arguing this matter with Arminians. It is the far side of this discussion with OV where our extremes are so starkly contrasted, but I am a compatiblist. I've tried to show how it is compatible, but I recognize your concern here. At this point, what does or doesn't make sense about the analogies that are given that elude to the compatible view? What is most problematic? What is on the right track for you in discussing the points (if any good presentations have been made).
I have yet to see a good explanation for how the fact of a decision can be certain and be known before it is made. Each of your examples tries to embrace this contradiction, yet you continue to either lose EDF or lose free will.
I'll take that criticism, but again I'm Calvinist after discovering the compatible side of the discussion and I found the compatible view stable.
That's interesting, given that it is illogical.
But even you see determinism if only at certain times. Doesn't that force you to a compatible view as well? How is it that Peter will deny 3 times? How is it that Judas was the betrayer and Jesus knew? How is it that Pharoah didn't release Israel until the tenth plague as God said? How is it that the pottery cannot talk back to the potter? How is it that some vessels are made for wrath and others for righteousness? I think you must hold compatible views if only to a lesser extent. In any of these circumstances, if not all, how do you see God's determinism in relation to man's culpability? Isn't it at least similar to my position?
I'm not compatiblist on any of these issues. All of these are able to be accomplihed by God without messing with free will.
Peter stops at three because a rooster crows. Can God make a rooster crow?
Pharaoh's heart is hardened. We aren't told how. The author doesn't make a point to say.
Vessels are covenants. Namely the nation of Israel under the Old Covenant. Given that God constructed the Old Covenant, and then interacted with His people through prophets, it's not hard to see how God could set up a culture that was prepared for wrath, given that he had a couple of thousand years to do it.
But the question for the Calvinist goes like this:
How does God demand that humans pay for sin He caused us to do? Why are the unsaved eternally condemned to torment, solely because God didn't choose them?
These are questions far closer to the core of Chrstianity then expaining only three denials.
Compatible/infralapsarian. I see God as producer. We are accountable as writer/directors for our script and production. This much is pretty clear to me in scripture where we are called to account for our time and efforts.
And then you lose EDF. The producer doesn't know what the writer/director is going to do before he gets the films.
I don't. I came from a horrible background. I do not question God through this anymore than Joseph concerning God's providence for him through his many trials.
Excellent. Welcome to Open View Theism.
This touches home for me. I am certain it isn't what we are going through, but how we handle things. I also believe God to be much closer during these times as He was for me. I must believe God works all things for good or I'd be hopelessly lost. For me, the question of 'when' wasn't and isn't as important as 'why' 'how come' 'where are you' 'I don't feel like I can handle it' etc. Again, these are all theological camp concerns. 'When' God knew I was going to go through it wasn't a primary question on my mind at the time. Where He was and what He was doing were. My biggest concern was that He show me that He could help me through it, love me through it, be close to me through it. I planted my hope in the promise that I was eternally His and that nothing could snatch me from Him. "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, Thou art with me..."
Amen. I doubt that my experience even comes close to yours, but I have felt some of the same kinds of things.
But theologically, the Calvinist places the evil in his life at God's feet, because He causes them, but then says that it's OK, because God wants something to good to come from it.
The OVT says that God is good in ALL that He does. He does not cause or create evil, but fallen men perpetrate evil. The problem is that we are ALL fallen, and we ALL perpetrate and suffer the effects of evil. That's not to say that you individually deserved what happened to you. But no man can claim to be innocent, either.
God, then, in His grace, is with those who call upon His name, working to take what man intends for evil and using it to create good for those who are called according to His purpose.
What's the difference? The major difference is this: Who is the evil one? Who is the cause of evil?
Muz