Maybe you haven't given the topic then appropriate amount of mental attention.Originally posted by Balder
But it seems hypocritical to me.
Is all killing murder?
Does that include fish?Originally posted by Balder
Buddhism is more sweeping in its condemnation of killing as a "solution" to our problems.
abortion change of heart
Hi :cattyfan: .
I was wondering about something... I don't mean to pry or anything, but I remember last fall when you were new to TOL you made some posts saying that you supported keeping abortion legal. Then a few months later I read that you had had a change of heart and that you are now against legalized abortion.
(Correct me if I'm mistaken.)
What role, if any, the discussion(s) on TOL played in your change of heart. And if they did play a role, to what extent?
The reason I ask is that I often see debates on TOL that go like this:
Christian: This (law/situation/school curriculum/court's decision/common perception/whatever) is terrible! We've got to stop this!
Scoffer: Then get out there and DO something about it instead of whining about it on the internet.
The way I see it, "whining about it on the internet" IS doing something about it. This is, after all, a public forum set up to facilitate debate. And the people who are here, whether they post or just read, know that and are here of their own volition. And every now and then, someone changes their heart and mind about something based on the discussions here.
For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12
Thanks for your time,
:turbo:
to be honest, Turbo, the discussions on TOL have caused me to question my support of legalized abortion. I am not fully turned, but I am having serious second thoughts about many of the things I've said here and other places.
Part of it has been the gentle words of people like ebenz and Nineveh and others like them...part of it has been the cold words of posters classifying "fetuses" as non-people, when I know from seeing 2 of my nephews born at 5 and 1/2 months and being fully formed little beings that they are, indeed, people. And part of it has been the blatant ignorance of some of the posters in the pro-choice camp.
When I was in college, I was militantly pro-choice. I went to a very liberal school, and that was the accepted viewpoint. Since then, I hadn't been challenged on my beliefs (I'm 37 now), and, because of that, I hadn't examined why I held those ideas. The debate on TOL has forced me to seriously take a look at what I think and why, and, frankly, I didn't like my reasons. They don't seem as sound now, or even, in some cases, logical.
The debates here have caused me to take a closer look at who I was and who I would like to be. Without these discussions, where we get to remain anonymous while learning, I'm not sure I could have reached this point. I still have trouble with the topic, knowing pregnancy would kill me (kidney problems,) but to look at the subject from an objective point of view, I can't say I honestly support abortion…and even personally, knowing pregnancy is death for me, I don't believe I could really terminate. (That's something I've never told anyone, but always felt.)
by the way, Sozo's vitriole did not help...in fact he hindered the process. When faced with that kind of anger, I, like so many, dig my heals in. It's the soft voices, that helped me think.
1 Kings 19:12-13 "...And after the fire came a gentle whisper. When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave."
Job 26:14 "and these are but the outer fringe of his works. how faint the whisper we hear of Him! Who then can understand the thunder of His power?"
I hope this answered your question...you're always welcome to ask me anything. I'll try to answer as honestly as I can.
Kindest Regards,
cattyfan
Ok, Catty, you keep this up and I'm going to have to ask you to pay me for a new keyboard. This one keeps getting wet.Originally posted by cattyfan
thank you for the compliment. I'm humbled by those of you who've given their time and wisdom to help teach me.
I've never been good about admitting mistakes or talking about such a personal, deeply-held opinion. But after reading through this thread I was compelled to discuss how the Holy Spirit and those who belong here on TOL have changed me. I only hope this helps others whose hearts have been hardened by a society that encourages the blatant disregard for human life.
Well thankfully most people aren't as dumb as you are and most people can see the difference between "killing" and "murder".Originally posted by Balder
In the tradition I follow, the prohibition is not against murder, which is a particular kind of killing (according to Judeo-Christian formulations), but against killing itself. Buddhism is more sweeping in its condemnation of killing as a "solution" to our problems.
Actually it is us (TOL and it's mod's and admin's) that are honored to have such an honest and frank Christian woman like you Catty as a member of our website.Originally posted by cattyfan
thank you for the compliment. I'm humbled by those of you who've given their time and wisdom to help teach me.
I've never been good about admitting mistakes or talking about such a personal, deeply-held opinion. But after reading through this thread I was compelled to discuss how the Holy Spirit and those who belong here on TOL have changed me. I only hope this helps others whose hearts have been hardened by a society that encourages the blatant disregard for human life.
Here.. Here!!Originally posted by Knight
Actually it is us (TOL and it's mod's and admin's) that are honored to have such an honest and frank Christian woman like you Catty as a member of our website.
originally posted by Sozo
I'm sorry if I was too abrasive in the beginning, catty, and thank God for those who softened the blow. You are a testimony to the need of a great site like TOL, and how important it is that those who stand firm in the faith, continue to support it.
Originally posted by lighthouse
Catty-
Thank you. You are a great and wonderful person.
Sozo-
I feel the same way as Cattyfan. You seemed nothing more than abrasive and full of...hot air, when I arrived here. But somehow I saw your point, and I changed my mind. You are now someone I respect deeply.