Oh, I am a work in progress. I have a lot of conflicting feelings, but with all the animosity I am met with, it's hard to have discussions that actually stay on point.
Also, I have so much turmoil going on in my personal life (that I don't speak of), that my focus is skewed. It's like trying to put a puzzle together on a park bench and having a gust of wind sweep it away.
I think some people here truly wish to distract from everything Christian because they prefer to keep TOL as a place to release their anger.