A person's beliefs DO NOT "make" Jesus the Lord. God has declared Him the Lord (Acts 2:36), He was declared the Lord by the angel who appeared to the shepherds (Luke 2:11).
In the judgment you will be judged by what you believe.
And you believe that Jesus is NOT Lord.
No one will be saved that does not believe that Jesus has victoriously defeated sin, death and the devil and has reconciled the world unto God.
Salvation always has been and always will be by faith in the work and the person of Jesus Christ.
You lack faith. Thats probably why you like Calvinism.