"Moved on"? Nice for us to be able to move on like that. We stole people, and forced labor from them, and built a country out of it, but no hard feelings on our side. Even after we allowed additional generations of segregation and deprivation following slavery. Right? We noble white folks forgive all, we're so magnanimous. And still we click our tongues and judge black culture, and ruin families and careers, and still there are white people here stereotyping against black people.
Before you can move on, there needs to be truth and reconciliation. The wrong must be acknowledged and understood, and to the extent possible, compensated. Otherwise, we're just sitting in our privileged position, ignoring the problem, assuming things won't even come back to bite us.
They've never really been allowed to participate fully in mainstream culture. Even today, there's a clear bias against hiring black actors unless for it's for a "black part", and it becomes clear when, for instance, someone suggests a black James Bond (
http://www.ew.com/article/2015/09/02/idris-elba-responds-james-bond-comment), or when it comes time to nominate black singers for awards (
http://madamenoire.com/548824/nicki-minaj-4/).
"Moving on" is a privilege, and we haven't really earned it. And we simply don't allow black people to move on.
Well, the supposed problem of single-parent families, which have become a lot more common for all races, was largely created in black families before it was ever acceptable for anyone else, because slaves would be sold away from their families routinely. But notice, also, that we don't use white single parents to draw conclusions and justifications about the mistreatment of an entire race.
Just think. Only 50 years ago, those unions would have been illegal in some states.
The point isn't that I think you're anything but a kind person of good will, or that you have a whole lot of deliberate prejudice. The point is that I think white people are so complacent about race issues that they are shouting down voices that raise those issues and rationalizing ignorance surrounding racial treatment.
Sorry, but that statement is racist, bybee. You believe that white people have changed, that there's essentially nothing more for them to do, but you think racism is ingrained in black people?
Perhaps white people have spent so much time pretending to be colorblind, that they don't recognize how the explicit malady of intentional, explicit, violent prejudice has morphed into implicit assumptions and self-sustaining systems of ghettoization.
After, World War II, the government in this country built the middle class, by investing an unprecedented amount of resources into returning veterans. There were education programs, and industrial development, and there were dollars spent building nice neighborhoods in the suburbs. But there were problems. Those scholarships were for schools that often wouldn't admit black students. And the government built those neighborhoods explicitly, deliberately segregated. If you were black, you couldn't live with the white people. We live today with the positive legacy of that massive investment in the success of the bulk of the people in this country, but we also live with the legacy of the decision that black people couldn't be a part of it. And given the way that wealth, even modest wealth, passes between generations, is it surprising that we still see the same patterns from the people who have been systematically dispossessed?