If it was God's will that men should have the ability to love or hate Him, then what?
Just answer the question.
False.
God is not willing that any should perish, but that ALL should come to repentance.
The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. - 2 Peter 3:9
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2Peter3:9&version=NKJV
Or, if we move the negative around, God is willing that none should perish, but that all should come to repentance. And yet, some, in fact, most, still perish.