Originally posted by Zakath
Shima,
Just a few thoughts your post stirred up...
One reason (not the only one, but perhaps a major one) that people adopt and maintain a religion is because it makes them feel better about themselves than if they did not hold that particular set of beliefs.
Holding a particular set of beliefs eliminates their need to search for meaning in life (it's provided by the religion), relieves them of the frustration of not knowing what happens in the future (religion tells them they'll get a reward if they're obedient), and it helps them deal with the ultimate fear of the unknown - the fear of self-annihilation by death (promised eternal life, nirvana, etc.).
Thus religions provide great comfort for some people. Since so much of a believer's psyche is wrapped up in their religion, they will interpret much of what they experience through the lens of their religious worldview, and will adamantly refuse to see things that are contradictory to their preconceived ideas about the universe.
For others of us who do not require such comfort, religions are much less useful. The major problem is that most humans are not yet at a stage where they can successfully cope with life without some sort of religious belief. They have gone through more life experience and have come to a realization that they can stand on their own feet without the crutch of religious belief. That is why the average atheist tends to be older, and generally better educated than the average religionist. It also explains why young atheists are much easier to convert to religion than older atheists...
....while atheists in general will post ad naseum their own words of comfort about how strong and independent they are in an effort to fool themselves. They desparately want to believe it but can't help doubting it. They are Seekers with a capital "S".