Like I said: The fact is that most white people don't understand that our society affords them privileges that don't come automatically for most people of color. Until you make a good-faith attempt to understand this, you'll be stuck in your baloney forever.
Notice you added "constitutional." As you should know, the constitution had to be amended to bring full equality to black citizens. You have to look at how the system (cultural, civic, judicial, residential, professional, etc.) has perpetuated that inequality to understand how embedded it is in American history and society. If you don't want to look at that, fine. If you don't want others to look at that, then you're part of the problem.