First Please quit insulting Tam - as in there is no excuse for it at all.
Didn't insult her at all.
If the women who wanted the vote years ago were told you would take down the flag and put one up of a woman equal to man -- but would not give women the actual vote - do you think we would have been impressed?
Suffrage was led in large part by northerners (specifically in New England and New York state) and opposed virulently by many if not most southerners.