:chuckle: You are the one that needs to calm down. You are so emotionally charged by what someone does in the flesh, you can't see straight. All one has to do is read what you believe is "the most loving thing" you can "say to a homo", to see that there couldn't be a moment when you actually give the good news to a "homo" as you would have hollered them into the other direction as you tell them to get out of your face, that God is their enemy and so are you. You haven't a clue about the ministry of reconciliation nor are you committed the word of it.
One man plants, another waters and the harvest is of God, not man.
I'd share the gospel with a repentant homosexual but they'd have to be repentant or else I'd be throwing pearls before swine, wasting both their time and mine. No one grasps for a life preserver if they don't believe their lives are in jeopardy.
I have no problem with people sharing the gospel with anyone they like. What I have a problem with is people who think that being nice is biblical. It isn't. Being honest is biblical. Telling the truth is biblical. Allowing the offense of the truth to work its ministry is biblical. Millions will go to Hell because Christians are so nice that people never even get told that they are are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked. That's a phrase out of the bible, in case you didn't know.
So how will all of those who make you sick hear?
I puke really loudly?
When will you preach it to them?
When they realize that they and the things they do are gross and perverse.
What will they have to do to qualify for you to preach it to them? What will you tell them? "What's the most loving thing" you "can say to a homo"?
The most loving thing (not the nicest thing) that you can say to a homo is....
"You're an evil, disgusting, pervert! Get away from me and my family right now!!"
If, by chance, you happen to have a homo ask you why everyone thinks they're gross (which would never ever happen if people acted the way you do). Then you might say...
"Ew! You're a homo?! It's because you are gross!"
Or whatever else you can come up with that communicates to them that they are in fact perverted and disgusting. Until they get the message there is no hope for their soul. They will go to Hell if they do not repent. There's no way to change direction if you don't know you're headed the wrong way.
If, by some minor miracle, a homo says to you, "Oh my God! I'm doomed! I've hurt everyone I've ever known and destroyed my life and the lives of dozens of others! What am I going to do?!"
THEN you show them where hope is! THEN you show them the way out! THEN there is hope for their redemption, not before!
They are capital criminals heir! They aren't guilty of telling a white lie to spare their momma's feelings or of stealing a grape from the grocery store. They didn't con grandma out of her life's saving like the T.V. preachers do or beat someone up in a bar fight after having a few too many. They've committed not just a sin, not just a crime but a
capital crime. A crime, according to God, on the same par as murder, incest, rape, kidnapping and adultery. The things they do are not simply life choices. Their actions hurt whole societies! And what's more they HATE God and I mean not just a little bit! You're worried that they'll never get to meet God because they'll hate me and Bob Enyart but what you don't get is that they don't hate God because of people who are telling them the truth. They know the truth already (on an intuitive level) and THAT'S why they hate God. Your preaching at an unrepentant homo is as likely to get you beat up or killed as it is anything else. You gotta use your head for something other than a hat rack and make wise decisions. Stop feeling your way through life, stop worrying about whether someone is going to like you and do something that has some chance of succeeding.
Resting in Him,
Clete