Originally posted by deardelmar
Why is it that your "truthful questions " sound so much like accusations, I wonder?
That's kind of like having a spouse, and when they walk in the door, you say, "Hi, Sweetie. Where have you been?" and the spouse answering, "Why are you accusing me????"
I'm guessing they sound like accusations because you either feel guilty or you don't have the answer.
It's fair to say, "I don't know."
It's fair to say, "I don't know if that has an answer."
But instead, I get attacked.
So, I think many of you are just blind guides.
It's more of a judgement based on evidence rather than one based on spite or anger or nastiness.
I simply don't see the answers coming. I don't even see "I'm not sure, and I don't know if I can explain it" coming out. So, I can only conclude that many let pride overtake honesty.