People commit adultery usually because they are not satisfied with their marriage. It is most of the time not due in a simple inability to control lusts, that is more a subject of pre-engagements.
But the commitment makes it all that time until after marriage, then there is something which lacks that causes adultery.
This is why the Bible discusses heavily on submission, as a lot of stress is put into men these days which go unrealized- rebellion of the wife, coercion of the wife, a self-centered nature of the wife- and men are told to just deal with it and if they make a mistake then they are adulterous dogs.
But if the woman continues in her ways, there is certainly less, if any, such assault on the conscious because there is already a preexisting stigma projected toward the man regardless by those in her corner.
Therefore, the adultery of the woman is seen as more severe by biblical ideology- it is why they weren't given authority in marriage, and why only men could divorce them for adultery. And that reflects heavy on another thing- despite that, men are actually more inclined to forgive adultery then women are.
There's just a big complexity there that is ignored in this age which the sages and saints revealed greatly of.
You didnt answer my question, do you think only women can be guilty of adultery? Its a yes or no question.