You are in the wrong dispensation.You are wrong, Knight.
1John 3:15 Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.
Only if you divorce eternal life from being Christian.
We are no longer under the law (1st John) we are under the dispensation of uncircumcision (sometimes called grace). And because you do not rightly divide the word of truth you have a disaster for a theology.