there was a good reason to make rape victims marry their rapists?Have you never noticed how different the old testament is from the new testament? Much of the outrage you note was concerning the nation of Israel . It was intended to be God directly ruling on earth. If you get past your knee jerk reaction to those shocking events, you can do a further study with more knowledgeable folks and with enough work, you will realize there was good reason for it all.
Today, God does not directly rule anything on earth. His spirit occupies the souls of his own. What once was taken care of with rigid rules, is today taken care of with those souls who are listening to the spirit within them.
Then shouldn't you be taking this up with theophilus?