With God all things ever done will be accounted for He says vengence is His. We will all give an account of the good and the bad we have done while here.
Also without pain there is no real growth in character. Its the pain we see or go through that molds us and changes us to be better people (although some let the pain make them bitter).
I don't agree with all you say but with the above I do. Pain and suffering are normal human experiences and nothing we should ask God to remove or hold him responsible for. In the same way, joy and happiness are normal. They are both mutually defining. When we think of suffering we also think of joy and happiness.
Pain and suffering, joy and happiness are the real boundaries of our personalities. They reflect that we are truly self-determining beings. They are our point of interaction with the outside world.
When I say that we are truly self-determining, I of course deny any teaching that all our decisions and actions have been determined externally. I know a lot of people have trouble grasping this but it is basic common sense. It desn't mean we can do anything we want. Because if we could do that then we would not experience joy at success or sadness or pain at failure. When we experience joy in success it is precisely because we know there was a possibility of failure and pain. When we experience pain, it is because we know there was a possibility of joy and pleasure. The pain, the suffering, the joy, the pleasure are real. And just as real are the possibilities of their opposites.
For example, if we cheat at a computer game and amass great advantages, then we do not experience joy at having won the game. This is why cheating in life is evil, along with stealing, fraud and so on. There is no joy associated with it. Normally, what is good for one person is bad for another: you win a bet but another person loses; you suffer an earthquake but a construction company gets a contract to rebuild your house. But a cheat gets no joy from cheating and his victim gets only suffering.
These are common sense ideas and need no theology to justify them. I don't need to be redeemed in order to understand them. I don't need to tell anyone that they cannot understand this because they are fallen (the way Calvinists are fond of talking when they tell us that we cannot understand God or suffering because we are fallen and thus they get an excuse for failing to account for the inconsistencies in their theology). Truth actually belongs to everyone and it is not the exclusive province of those who claim to have revelation from God.
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