Here is the main problem we are discussing.
In the doctrine of eternal torment, where the Bible says that all things are in subjection to God, through Christ in the end...billions of people are still in torment. The reason they are in torment is that they are not in subjection to Christ. If they WERE in subjection to Christ they would not be in torment...would they?
The whole scenario sounds like an episode of Star Trek where Captain Kirk talks a computer into destroying itself.
Now...here is what the Apostle Paul says about the end...and this time I'll even use the King James Bible...
Then cometh the end, when he shall have delivered up the kingdom to God, even the Father; when he shall have put down all rule and all authority and power. For he must reign, till he hath put all enemies under his feet. The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death. For he hath put all things under his feet. But when he saith all things are put under him, it is manifest that he is excepted, which did put all things under him. And when all things shall be subdued unto him, then shall the Son also himself be subject unto him that put all things under him, that God may be all in all. Else what shall they do which are baptized for the dead, if the dead rise not at all? why are they then baptized for the dead?
(1Co 15:24-29 KJVR)
Now...the Apostle Paul does not have torment in mind at all when talking about being in subjection to Christ...He has God all in all as the outcome.
This simply cannot be true with a permanent unending torment as the final outcome at all. But people that believe in eternal torment, in their attempt to support their pet doctrine, say that people "spending eternity" apart from God is what Paul was talking about here...and they say if you don't see this you've taken things "out of context".
A Christian Universalist re-examines what was said about judgements...and will notice that all references to "everlasting", "eternal", and "forever and ever", etc., are translations of one four letter Greek word...AION, and its adjectives, AIONIOS, which is PLURAL, and AIONION, which means "pertaining to an AION".
The Hebrew equivilent in the Old Testament is OLAM.
AION is an undefined time...an age.
Redefining that word to mean "eternal" would derail what the Apostle Paul says is the outcome. Therefore, if what the Apostle Paul says is true...then the AION or AIONS in question cannot be unending. Since the Bible, in the Hebrew or the Greek, NEVER says the AION or AIONS in question are unending...there is no reason to believe they are unending.
Now...how do you determin who is right?