Projill
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Originally posted by ClaypoolKid
; that what is bad for one group may be good for another.”
So what your saying is that if a man rapes a woman it would be a ‘bad’ experience for her but it could be a ‘good’ experience for him and therefore we can’t declare the rape incident as morally ‘good’ or morally ‘bad’. Is this correct?
Ummm...you're resorting to highly emotive posting. I think Zak will be able to handle the rest of this post fine so I'll just respond to this point...seeing as how I am a woman and have experienced rape.
Morality, as has been brought up before by many people on this forum, is directly relative to the culture in which we live. Morally, in our society, we view rape as a "bad" thing. I think the western world is, for the most part, agreed on this point. However, there are places in the world where rape is considered a "normal" part of interrogating people in custody...not by law, per se, but in practice (I believe the term is "folkways".) Juvenile male prisoners sometimes wind up in adult prisons in certain areas of the world and they are treated as property by the prisoners (as well as many of the guards). Officially this doesn't happen, but behind closed doors it's not even shocking to those who live in those societies. Do I find these practices horrid? Of course! I'm a member of Amnesty International and what we do is try to put an end to inhumane treatment, human to human, around the world. But it's an uphill battle because these people have been brought up to think that this kind of treatment is okay.
It's perfectly acceptable to kill rape victims in some of our more religiously-fueled countries around the world. It's called an "honor crime" and the family's honor is more important than the woman's life. Do I find this terrible? Again, of course. But they see it as necessary.
Are you beginning to understand how the mores, folkways, and values of our culture influence our behavior? Do you understand how different standards invoke quite different and, as far as we can grasp it, outrageous and shocking behavior?
It's only by, through the generations, doing away with inhumane treatment of people in our own country that we've come as far as we have...and America's still far from being number one when it comes to being humane. Our very own country is little more than a hundred some odd years away from a time when we considered subjecting whole races into slavery as perfectly acceptable (even promoted by preachers from their pulpits at the time.)
You might not like the idea of moral relativism...but think about what you might consider to be moral or immoral if you had been born a mere one hundred fifty years ago.