All forms of atheism, boiled down, are active beliefs that there is no God.
Some atheists, like the New, are blunt about this. That's what the term atheist means, after all. They're consistent and intellectually honest with the label.
Others, like those here, think they're clever enough to pull off pretending it's merely passive by actively denying that they're actively denying anything, as if no one will notice.
You're not clever.
The strident, openly hostile New Atheists are more honest in their atheism than you are. They don't vainly pretend this is nothing more than reasonable people disagreeing on trifles at a polite cocktail party, who when the party's over will part amiably. It's just one more tiny front of the long, already lost war against the God Who you know sees you.