I haven't been irrational, chrys. You've been downright stubborn, that's all.
I'm not playing games, you just refuse to be helpful. If you'd been helpful, you'd have your answer from me by now. You're shooting yourself in the foot and blaming it on me.
I noticed too that you didn't answer if you wanted to understand how your list looked to me, either. I don't really believe you want to know what I think. I believe you want to be able to pin a label on me and sort me neatly into whatever box you think I belong.
I already have
you are strong, clever, and disingenuous
but
you certainly are not feminine