Even as the rush of water, so is the heart of a king in God's hand; He will turn it in whatever way He shall choose." Proverbs 21:1
"And David said to Abishai, and to all his servants, Behold, my son, which came forth from my bowels, seeks my life: how much more may this Benjamite do it! Let him alone, and let him curse; for the Lord has bidden him. It may be that the Lord will look on my humiliation, and will requite me good for his cursing this day." 2 Samuel 16:11-12
"This I do, O house of Israel, but for mine holy name's sake, which you have profaned among the heathen, whither ye went. And I will sanctify my great name, which was profaned among the heathen, which you have profaned in the midst of them; and the heathen shall know that I am the Lord, says the Lord God, when I shall be sanctified in you before their eyes. For I will take you from among the heathen, and gather you out of all countries, and will bring you into your own land. Then will I sprinkle you with clean water, and you shall be clean: from all your own filthiness, and from all your idols will I cleanse you. A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you; and the stony heart shall be taken away out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and will cause you to walk in my statutes, and you shall keep my judgments, and do them." Ezekiel 36:22-27
This scripture points out that man's will is completely malleable to God's will. Did Abram asked to be chosen from all those on earth to receive God's graces? A better question --- Was Abram more worthy than all others?
"The will is prepared by the Lord." Proverbs 8:35
"The steps of a man are ordered by the Lord, and his way does He will."
"It is God who works in you, even to will!" Philippians 2:13
"I will make you to walk in my statutes, and to observe my judgments, and to do them." Ezekiel 36:27
"It was of the Lord to harden their hearts, that they should come against Israel in battle, that they might be exterminated." Joshua 11:20
"And David said to Abishai, and to all his servants, Behold, my son, which came forth from my bowels, seeks my life: how much more may this Benjamite do it! Let him alone, and let him curse; for the Lord has bidden him. It may be that the Lord will look on my humiliation, and will requite me good for his cursing this day." 2 Samuel 16:11-12
the Lord appointed to defeat the good counsel of Ahithophel, to the intent that the Lord might bring all evils upon Absalom." 2 Samuel 17:14
"Now tarry at home; why do you challenge me to your hurt, that you should fall, even you, and Judah with you?" 2 Kings 14:10
"Even as the rush of water, so is the heart of a king in God's hand; He will turn it in whatever way He shall choose." Proverbs 21:1
"For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections;" Romans 1:26
But not to evil, right?
"And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient." Romans 1:28
"For as you, in times past, have not believed God, yet have now obtained mercy through their unbelief; even so have these also now not believed, that through your mercy they also may obtain mercy; for God has concluded them all in unbelief, that He might have mercy upon all." Romans 11:30-32
"I the Lord have deceived that prophet," Ezekiel 14:9
"And Pharaoh hardened his heart at this time also; neither would he let the people go." Exodus 8:32
Romans 9:22 (New King James Version)
22 What if God, wanting to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction,