Tolerance includes permitting or allowing,a conduct/action, or viewpoint, with which one disagrees, while, respecting the "opponent" in the debate.
So, "toleration" cannot be excercised unless unless we disagree with him/her. Obviously, I do not "tolerate" respective members of the boc, or anyone else, if I agree with them, i.e., I don't "tolerate" people who have my views. Tolerance is reserved for those we think are in error.
Thus, our "modern, civilized, cultured" society, and all that jazz, has redefined the definition of tolerance, and thus, when Christians/others disagree with sodomy, and the laws we are witnessing going into effect, "calling a spade a spade," asserting they are in error, we are labeled as "intolerant."
Isaiah 5:20 KJV
Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!