absolutes to me are a moral cunundrum invented by christians with an equally ficticious solution, all the while you folks are expecting everyone to thank you.
some things shouldn't be done by decent, civilized people. some people are not decent nor civilized, their personal moral standards are in the gutter while good folks like ourselves have higher, personal moral standards. an aborigine may molest little children and have no idea that we think it is morally horrific, obviously his standards are lower than ours and had he been brought up in our society, he would never have had the excuse that he didn't know better. and likewise, had i been raised on a diet of bugs, fruit and little children the idea of right and wrong would probably be mind blowing.
this is a fictional dilemma. you don't hurt people (molest, steal from, murder, rape, etc.) because it is not practical to hurt people, because you do not want to be hurt in return, because you wouldn't wish it upon yourself or the people you love. it's just as much an issue of practicality as it is morality.
i have my personal moral standards squared away, i do not hurt and i expect the same in return. i'm not condemning or judging anyone else's moral code, even if their code includes rape as being :thumb:. what i am doing is promising a world of hurt upon anyone who violates the tranquility and comfort of my life. i would never seek to impose a code of morality upon a free thinking individual.
whether you get your morals from the bible or from yourself, we all share fundamental moral values: do not kill, do not rape, do not steal, etc. you don't need a divine mandate or convoluted ideas of moral relativism to share common sense ideals and actions that keep ourselves honest and decent.