Interplanner
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You will have to explain that further.
I think you are mixed up about that parable.
The parable is about forgiving others so that God will forgive us.
No, you are confused about cause and effect. We don't obligate God to forgive us. Rom 11:35 (notice that at the end of explaining things about Israel with all its works!).
If you are talking about the Lord's prayer, yes, there is a sense in which if we don't follow through, then we didn't get it. But that is a proof of, not an obligation on God.
This parable shows that the unmerciful manager never got it. You missed v26. That is a person speaking who didn't get what total imputation of credit on a debt is about. V27 is that it was canceled. You don't feel obligated to pay back canceled things!
But he acted uncanceled, didn't he? He went out and choked the first measily debt-owing person he could find! He could have canceled it, now that his was gone. But his mind was in the way, saying he had to pay it back.
So yes it is about proving that we 'got it' that our debt is canceled. Whoever is forgiven much loves much. But if we don't think we are forgiven or canceled much, we don't love.
The scary thing is: even faith is a gift; it is not of ourselves. Are you prepared to empty yourself that much and say you can't even provide that to the relationship? He has all the 'power' in the relationship.