Actually loving Jesus is in knowing Jesus in His Spirit. These is no difference in knowing Jesus and loving Jesus. It is the same homogeneous thing. Knowing and loving Jesus is literally the same thing. These cannot surface and flow independent of each other.
Jesus through His Spirit enables all our authentic wishes (the ones of our individual hearts or spirits) to be fulfilled or expressed (even the carnal/physical ones), with perfection and harmony, not only, without our accruing sin but also with glorification from God. Indeed Jesus so love us (i.e. those who are led by His Spirit). From knowing this Truth, directly and intuitively from the Spirit of Jesus through one's one's own heart, one naturally and spontaneously loves Jesus unlimited and to death. This is why God created and sustains Jesus and the Spirit of Jesus. So we naturally and spontaneously also love God to death, as well. For God too, loves us (i.e. those who obey His will unconditionally) unlimited.
Jesus' commandment for those whose hearts are no longer waxed gross is:
Be led into all your works, unconditionally, in real time, all the time, by precisely what My Spirit has in mind for you to pray for, say and do as discerned within your own heart or spirit, in real time, all the time, even if you have to transgress the Ten Commandments. This is God's will for those whose hearts are not waxed gross. Jesus sent these follower to Paul
Jesus' commandment for those whose hearts are still waxed gross is:
Esteem the Ten Commandments. You are under them and you must uphold all of them to the letter for your righteousness. This is God's will for those whose hearts are waxed gross. Jesus sent these followers to Peter/Satan for correction and management, until their hearts ceases to be waxed gross. (re. 1 Corinthians: 5 verse: 5 and Timothy: 1 verse: 20).
Intellectual management for those who are spiritually dead (i.e. those whose hearts are waxed gross) . . . i.e. under the Gospel of circumcision (Peter's commission, i.e. with the law).
Spiritual management for those who are spiritually alive (i.e. those whose hearts are no longer waxed gross) . . . . i.e. under the gospel of un-circumcision (Paul's commission, i.e. with God given freedom, liberty and justification to transgress law).
You are a lip server, so your word is meaningless, dude.