Wrong. Both women shoppers are unreasonable,
Unreasonable?
Shopper 1: "If I do not get to the bath tissue before it has been got to by others in this crowd, there may be none left for me to buy, by the time I get to where it presently is on the salesfloor. Therefore, I best make haste to get to it, because I need to buy some--and as much of it as I can, at that."
Shopper 2: "What she said."
How, exactly, do you imagine that that is unreasonable?
and just for shoving and pushing they should be banned from the shop.
Maybe, maybe not; in any case, the decision to implement such a ban is wholly up to the shop owners. Have you ever been trying to get somewhere through a crowd, like in a really busy marketplace? I guess if you feel you must take my phrase, "pushing and shoving her way through a crowded market", to mean, literally, that these women were physically assaulting others in the crowd, or inflicting bodily harm (whether or not deliberately), then what can I do about that? But how is saying they should be banned from the shop relevant to the question I asked you? It's not.
Your question did not show calm sense in either description.
A distinction between "calm sense" and "not-calm sense" is not a part of my vocabulary; I do not know what (if anything) you mean by modifying the noun, 'sense', by the adjective, 'calm', here. I can think of a person simultaneously being calm and having sense, and of a person simultaneously being not-calm and having sense; but I do not know what (if anything) I should think of
sense, itself, being called "calm sense", rather than just "sense".
Now, why don't you describe a third shopper, one who is vying for a share of the same merchandise, for a share of which each of these two women are each vying, and in the same grocery store, and the same crowd in which these two women are trying to make their way to the same scarce product. Describe this third shopper in such a way as you like a shopper to be (inasmuch as you told me you don't
like the shoppers I described). This third shopper, just as the two women I have described, also needs to get his hands on as much of the same scarce product as he can. Now, each of these two women, plus this third shopper, "only [has] a week's supplies at home" (to use your words). Now, if I'm not mistaken, you would not like to apply your phrase, "calm careful preparation and planning", to a description of the two women whom I've described. So, please tell me exactly what (if anything) about this third shopper would need to be true--differentiating him from the two women shoppers--to make you willing to apply your phrase, "calm careful preparation", to a description of him, while denying application of it to the two women.