Deflecting and defensive, that proves it. Just because you did manly things with your manly dad ? Thanks for coming out, you know we won't judge you.
I know what happened in your life to bring you to the sad state that you're currently in (refer to WHMBR! Part 3's "Most important post") ; the question is: Why don't you seek spiritual and psychological help to do something about it?
I've purposely shared stories throughout my 4 part thread by those who have been able to leave same sex desires behind, I've done that so that the many many homosexuals here on TOL have role models to follow.
I pray daily that you and the so many others here on TOL that defend homosexuality will accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior so that we all can share together the happiness that eternity with Him brings.