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"Just as we do not deny these things which are written, so do we repudiate
things that are not written. That God was born of a Virgin we believe,
because we read it. That Mary was married after His birth we do not believe
because we do not read it." -- Ste. Jerome --
Jerome was correct on one point. Up till the time of Christ's birth, Mary and
Joseph were betrothed, but not yet married. (Luke 2:5)
At one point in their engagement, Joseph wanted to break it off. (Matt 1:18
19)
But a heavenly messenger intervened to prevent him. (Matt 1:20)
Subsequently, Joseph continued to honor the engagement. (Matt 1:24)
Now the really significant part is: the messenger instructed Joseph to name
Mary's baby (Matt 1:21).
Joseph did as he was told. (Matt 1:25)
Mary too was ordered to name her baby; with the very same name the
messenger dictated to Joseph. (Luke 7:31)
So when the time came to give the baby his legal name, both Joseph and
Mary stepped forward together to identify themselves as Christ's parents.
†. Luke 2:21 . . And when eight days were accomplished for the circumcising
of the child, his name was called Jesus, which was so named of the angel
before he was conceived in the womb.
Now; by some strange twist of the imagination, Jerome somehow convinced
himself that when Joseph and Mary stepped forward to give Christ his legal
name, they did so as a betrothed couple rather than a married couple. In
other words; Jerome somehow convinced himself that Christ's parents
remained engaged forever and never got around to tying the knot!
But that's not how engagements work. They are not meant to be perpetual
arrangements with no end in sight. No. When a man and woman commit
themselves to an engagement, it's with the intent and fore view of getting
married and settling down together. Why Jerome didn't get it I just don't
know.
A far more sensible take on Joseph and Mary, is that sometime between
Christ's birth and his circumcision, they tied the knot. So when they stepped
forward to give Christ his legal name, they did so as man and wife. Thus, in
full accord with the normal round of human experience: Jesus, Mary, and
Joseph were a family in every sense of the word— a holy family; not some
freak coven consisting of a child shared by two people engaged to never be
married.
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